Ghoster cameback after 3 weeks, acted like I didn't do anything wrong, and that they went through some drama (which they're supposed to tell me about later). I genuinely didn't know what to say, so I replied after a day and a half (I had let them on delivered). They replied 2 days later, and told me a little bit of what they're going through. I texted them a few hours later and said that I'm here if they need to talk. I'm not giving them all the power by saying that. I don't really want to text them unless they reach out. But anyway, they left me on read and it's been 2 days since then.
I wasn't sure if they lied about the things that happened to them. But I found out, on their social media, that there might have been some truth (to some extent)!
As of now, I'm not texting them. I don't want to give them my time nor attention. But I'm still willing to reply to their messages. So since they're apparently going through something difficult (that doesn't make them think right), should I check up on them or let them reach out (no matter what emotional state they're in)? They did hurt me, so I don't know. Should I act like a friend to them (despite what they've done) or barely aknowledge their existence (only reply when they text me)? I don't want to seem needy or weak, so I'm not sure if it would be a good idea.
