How does he feel being ghosted/ no contact?

Anonymous

I recently ended a rocky relationship ( 7 years) he was truly amazing, he done nothing wrong but we were long distance and life didn’t always work in our favour. I’m going through a lot right now nursing a family member in palatine care, amongst other stuff, and although he has been there as much as he can it hasn’t been enough. I raised my issues with him months back, which he replied he would work on them, but I still wasn’t really as appreciated as I would like; and so with no real explanation I blocked him on every means possible. He hasn’t attempted to contact me, he would need to go to some drastic measure to do so but it’s still possible. I’m grateful as I didn’t imitate no contact to punish him; and I’m not planning on ever contacting him again, neither will I be responding should he contact me….. to me this break off is more about self respect and self healing. He had warnings which he failed to take notice of ans change his behaviour. I’m just wondering how he would feel, it’s been two weeks and I’m experiencing all the usual breakup symptoms that are very intense. I like how he lets me be and respects my wishes enough to leave me alone when I want it. I know he will be waiting for me to finish my breakdown and have my moment, and I’m pretty sure he’ll be expecting me to come crawling back with sorry I miss you. When will he realise I’m gone for good? And how will he feel

How does he feel being ghosted/ no contact?
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