How does he feel being ghosted/ no contact?

[Anonymous]

I recently ended a rocky relationship ( 7 years) he was truly amazing, he done nothing wrong but we were long distance and life didn’t always work in our favour. I’m going through a lot right now nursing a family member in palatine care, amongst other stuff, and although he has been there as much as he can it hasn’t been enough. I raised my issues with him months back, which he replied he would work on them, but I still wasn’t really as appreciated as I would like; and so with no real explanation I blocked him on every means possible. He hasn’t attempted to contact me, he would need to go to some drastic measure to do so but it’s still possible. I’m grateful as I didn’t imitate no contact to punish him; and I’m not planning on ever contacting him again, neither will I be responding should he contact me….. to me this break off is more about self respect and self healing. He had warnings which he failed to take notice of ans change his behaviour. I’m just wondering how he would feel, it’s been two weeks and I’m experiencing all the usual breakup symptoms that are very intense. I like how he lets me be and respects my wishes enough to leave me alone when I want it. I know he will be waiting for me to finish my breakdown and have my moment, and I’m pretty sure he’ll be expecting me to come crawling back with sorry I miss you. When will he realise I’m gone for good? And how will he feel

[Oliverlogan263]

Man, that's tough. Being ghosted like that out of the blue really sucks. I can only imagine how confused and hurt your ex must be feeling. 7 years together is a long time, so for it to suddenly be over without any real explanation... yeesh. As for how he's feeling now, I'd say probably really sad and down about the whole thing. Especially since he thought y'all were working on things. The no contact is probably messing with his head too - not knowing what went wrong or how to fix it. By this point after a couple weeks, he's probably starting to accept it might really be over for good. Even if part of him still holds out hope you'll come back. I'd bet he feels pretty defeated. Losing someone you cared about like that can really shake you. Hopefully with more time he'll be able to move on instead of waiting around. But can't blame him for being blindsided by how it ended out of the blue. That's rough.

[Anonymous]

Ofc you're Emma Watson guys would go on knees for you if you blocked them. 😊

[Asker]

I don’t get it?

[Asker]

Of course he’s noticed, what a stupid comment

[Anonymous]

He probably didn't even realize you blocked him.

[Asker]

Of course he’s noticed, what a stupid comment

[Opinion Owner]

You did him a favor. Who wants to be with you?