Okay here for some advice. Shall I wish ?

[Anonymous]

1. My ex boyfriend ghosted me for fcking 1 month out of nowhere.

2. On confrontation he admitted that he wanted to break up.

3. I was devastated coz it was the best relationship I ever had for 2 years. Hoping he would get back, I left the scene and was in no contact.

4. Out of the blue moon he mailed me after a month " sorry". I was pissed at the bare minimum attitude and did not respond.

5. Just after another one month it was my bday , he mailed again "happy birthday'. To which I again did not reply.

6. A few weeks ago I noticed that he unblocked me on all socials though he did not request or text.

7. Present day - It's his bday in 2 days shall I wish him or not?

He did real bad to me though I still love him and kinda want him back but also want him to come to me and talk over.

[Anonymous]

Then stop giving him the silent treatment and talk like an normal person does. Do you know talk? Like talk, try to resolve the situation? Like try and talk instead of acting like this is a Disney movie or soap opera scene. You know talk? Talk rather than create more anxiety for yourself. Talk and stop making a big deal over nothing. You learn to talk and understand he is a human being and makes mistakes too? I am not sure what to tell you. Maybe you should talk to him and see what happens. I do not know what to say to you, maybe. Maybe sit on your phone, do nothing and think about it some more?

[Asker]

I fear rejection.

[Opinion Owner]

Well, that fear will not go away until you face it. As a man, I would rather get rejected on the spot instead of waiting six months, being nice to her, hoping for a relationship, and being completely devastated and heartbroken after all that work I put into it.

[Opinion Owner]

The only limits we have are the ones we put on ourselves. You are fully capable of getting the man of your dreams. But you need to be able to have the guts to fail or embarrass yourself. You can do it, but do you have the guts to fail? Do you have the drive to get what you want?

[Changiis07]

Nope he is an ex for a reason. I would move on

[joeldalton]

do not wish him a happy birthday.