How do I handle a ghoster?

[Anonymous]

This guy ghosted me three months with no explanation but is still friends with one of my friends. My friend tells me everything he says about me. He asked her do I miss him and what guys have I been seeing. He ghosted me like this before and came back into my life like nothing happened through my friend. He didn't mention the ghosting but was just being goofy, attempting to hug me and pretending to start a play fight with me in front of the friend. While he was doing all of that, I asked why he ghosted but he never really said and kept changing the subject to something stupid.

He's ghosted again and im pretty sure he's going to come back this exact way and im not sure how to react. I know if I tell him to leave me alone he won't take me serious and will keep pestering me.

[Somoneelse]

I have a feeling is is that dumb love-guru trick some people are selling where men get told to ghost a girl to make her get attracted to him and miss him.

"My friend tells me everything he says about me. He asked her do I miss him and what guys have I been seeing. He ghosted me like this before and came back into my life like nothing happened through my friend." This part kinda shows that behaviour.

I think you should just block him and ignore him, that is exactly the thing he seems to fear. He wants your attention.

[Somoneelse]

The best advice is just to ignore him and stop letting him play these dumb games. He wants to ghost/zombie you? Sure! Than he won't get any energy from you back as well. Don't even tell him about it and dont ask about the ghosting anymore. Just block him and be gone with his bs.

[Finchie40]

Ghost them , you aren’t a wind up toy that can be played with when it’s convenient for them , if anyone treats you like an option kick them to the curb where they belong , they don’t deserve anymore of your time what so ever , when a girl ghosts me , I exempt her from my life , I don’t care how beautiful she looks on the outside because she is already ugly on the inside , never give your time to someone that doesn’t make you their priority , you will only be hurting yourself by thinking that person might of changed , because the truth is they didn’t, they had their chance and they blew it , realize you deserve someone better than that shit

[its_amelia_c]

Ok this is going to sound a bit rude bout it’s just honest.
At this point you get what you pay for babes!
You are letting him treat you this way. You are asking for this type of behaviour by every time he does you dirty you take him back no questions asked and act like nothing has happened. What do you expect him to do, treat you any different if you don’t expect him to.
Sorry but someone will o my treat you the way you let them!

[bobalife]

Lol I called that “zombie” coming back from the dead, ain’t ghosting. If someone can’t be open and communicative, esp when you asked and repeating those poor behaviors, i’d say it’s better to focus on someone else who will treat you better or move on and ignore his attempts. He lost his shots and taking you for granted tbh.

[82lynx]

If I were you I would be mighty tempted to say what’s on my mind with a swift shot in the pills. If he has half a brain he should be able to figure out why.

On the flip side, I can’t think of one woman who hasn’t ghosted me. The rare one hits me up first, loses interest, then ghosts. With a near 100% failure rate, I just can’t be bothered with them anymore. Best to push them away immediately.

[Lionman95]

Move on just ignore him and invest your life in other people. If a guy just contacts you every now and then he´s probably not that interested in you.

[guy_123]

Why care about such a guy with so many other options out there? Keep away from him if you are sure he deliberately ghosts you.

[sheikalana]

Simply don't deal with them. You either delete and block them or if they come back you be the ghost this time.

[spartan55]

Well why do you think he doesn't take you seriously? Who is he?

[HateyouxD]

Nope stick to your guns. if he's done it once he'll do it again

[Clyde_123]

True believe her lol

[Slapmynuts]

Just tell him you want nothing to do with him and leave it as that! If he keeps pushing, tell him you will have no choice and will call the police for harassment.🫡

[OtterMan68]

It's not your problem. It's his. It's his issue; not yours.

Don't blame yourself for this and don't beat yourself up over it.

[confusedandromantic]

Ghost him back. Don’t give him the satisfaction of a reply

[deus_ex_sisyphus]

Get some respect and stop setting yourself up to be his backup option.

[ethansf]

He sounds insecure and immature. I wouldn't waste any more time.

[DreamLife7]

Again? Jokes on you lol. He doesn't like nor respect you. Stop being an insecure airhead

[strateguy632]

be patient but by one month block them.

[Clyde_123]

You move on. Stop thinking about him too.

[Tomisworthless]

You don’t they are ghosts

[Anonymous]

I move on to a new woman. Problem solved.

[Danny_dan92]

Ghost them

[Luckycharms12]

Move on

[ChefPapiChulo]

Lol what

[riverrat3]

Move on