Firstly, just because I’m worried about the state of where things are going between me and this guy doesn’t mean I dislike him or am trying to find an excuse to end things. I would like to continue talking and see where things go. I just feel an intuitive sense that he was interested at first but isn’t anymore. I think I bore him. We talk every day and I’m okay with just being friends and slowing down. But I would rather not. I don’t want him to end things either though, and I have a feeling that if I don’t just end it somehow I’m going to get ghosted. I’m irritated as well because it’s another wasted attempt. I’m starting to hate myself and lowkey it’s a personal problem so it’s not even something I wish to discuss with him. My self esteem should not be correlated with any man’s behavior but lately it’s just been rocky. I’ve been feeling really bad about myself for a while and he was refreshing to talk to. If he does ghost me it’s going to actually hurt this time. I know the only way to avoid it is to end things first. Petty but effective. However, I like him enough to not want to hurt his feelings or reject him in any kind of way. I don’t have any desire to hurt him but the thing is everybody doesn’t have the same kind of heart as me. The amount of times I have went against my intuition to give a man the benefit of doubt when I felt the distance between us ALWAYS led to me being ghosted and seeing it coming but slowing the last few guys I dated to just do it anyway so I wouldn’t end up hurting them or rejecting them.
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I am confused does this man know your wanting his attention? Is it over the web through social media? If you like the guy that much then let him know let him be the one to talk more. But with what you said it may hurt this time means there was another time. Did he known then or was he feelingnamd guessing? Any way I feel your problem you asked online was your way of letting him know just a guess I could be wrong. As for yout last 3 biyfriends I am sorry you was treated that way you deserved to have been treeted better.
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