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Women do many things that warrant the attention and interest of men without even realising. We’re just supposed to trust them? It’s mad.
Men need to have some control over their partner. The idea that it is somehow bad is why modern relationships aren’t working and won’t last a lifetime
I see it all the time even today.
Yes because most females , not all lol are weak and fragile compared to a man, Most females are attracted to a man that she feels safe and protected by , she wants to feel safe and protected in his arms and feel he has her back no matter what obstacles come their way. Most females look at a man to lead her and guide her , not control her , but trust her and love her the same way she will trust and love him. Most females will not cheat on a man that she feels safe and protected by , she knows she isn’t perfect and she knows her man isn’t perfect either , but if he has her back no matter what, she will more than likely be submissive to him. Females mainly only cheat on a man that she doesn’t feel safe and protected by , that treats her like shit , and treats her like she is an option , she won’t feel safe with him , she will look at him like he is weak. Females are very emotional people , if a guy can’t handle her emotions and her crazy outbursts she will lose interest in him and feel he doesn’t have her back she will either leave him or cheat on him for another man that makes her feel safe and protected. A man that she can look up to. I been the other guy a handful of times and when i questioned these girls’ as to why they cheated they all said the same thing , Her so called partner treats her like shit and and he prioritizes everyone else but her. So my advice if you want a girl to stand by your side , make her your top priority and love and respect her the same way you want to be loved and respected by her , Do not treat her like an option , because she will treat you like one as well. A relationship needs to go both ways for it to work , if not , it’s a waste of time. If a girl treats you like an option? Kick her ass to the curb where she belongs
Yes, it makes sense for men have a responsibility to protect women. Physically, most women are at a disadvantage compared to men in confrontational situations, unless the woman has extensive training in martial arts, actual experience and rough training. Additionally, the threat of weapons like knives further complicates things. This is why masculinity in men is super important, you have to stand up for your partner, you're the only one who can.
Drawing from my experience in Krav Maga, MMA, and BJJ, I personally feel a strong sense of duty to ensure my future partner's safety, especially in potentially dangerous situations. I won't let my future partner walk alone at night unless it's with me or to a very close place, that's not being controlling, that's being rational, people confuse the two, especially in the West. Of course, mutual respect and understanding are crucial in any relationship. If a partner insists on going alone despite safety concerns, then maybe you should reconsider that person being your partner.
These days women are relying on the government to take care of them and protect them. Good luck finding a woman who won’t just use the law to destroy your life simply because they can.
Already found them, multiple even, all you need is a passport and some other documents.
I probably should have mentioned women from the United States or England. Foreign women from what I’ve been told anyway are far better options. But that’s probably because they don’t know about the types of laws we have here in the states that benefit women to antagonize men. Once the democrats make it so that these foreign women can vote like the rest of the women here in the states they’ll become no different than the women we have here
You know, cultural differences between continents can really run deep, shaping people's views and behaviors in some surprising ways. Even if they're aware of laws in places like the US or England, women tend to stick to the values they grew up with, even after moving to a country with different rules.
I've found that women I've met overseas, including those who were already in relationships, often had a level of education and awareness that was quite different from what I'd seen back home in the US. Some of them even knew quite a bit about the United States, despite never having been there themselves. It's pretty eye-opening to see how varied people's perspectives can be when you step outside your own culture. There are foreign nations with women that might go to US and like you said, become no different than the women born in the US, but that's only a small percentage when you take into consideration how big the world actually is.
If you know where to look, and how to look, you can find a really good long term partner.
What do you say to the men who can’t move out of the states because they don’t want to leave their family behind or can’t just go on a trip outside of the states because they don’t have the $ to pay for the trip?
Making money nowadays can be easier than ever if you know what you're doing. However, I do agree that leaving your family behind can be incredibly tough, as it's something I've personally had to face. In such a situation, I would simply tell them to start acknowledging the unfortunate circumstances and encouraging them to live the best life they can even with all the hardships. Perhaps even consider temporarily giving up on dating and focusing on personal growth and well-being.
“I would simply tell them to start acknowledging the unfortunate circumstances and encourage them to live the best life they can even with all the hardships. Perhaps even consider temporarily giving up on dating and focusing on personal growth and well-being”
I’ve decided to give up on dating and relationships and even friendships with women entirely. I’ve found that being asexual and aromantic, I am far happier being single as opposed to being unhappy while in a relationship
That's completely understandable. I've also stepped back from dating, though not completely, just for some years ahead. However, if you've found that being asexual and aromantic brings you greater happiness and fulfillment while single, then that's a valid and respectable choice to make. Your well-being and happiness should always come first.
WHAT THE H**L IS BJJ?
You are discussing two issues. The first appears to be that women do things that turn men on and don't realize they're doing so. Is that correct?
The second is a man should have control over his partner who REALIZES she performs these attractive behaviors in order that she won't accidentally attract other men because of this unconscious "female" behavior. Is that correct?
What you're talking about is all about the need for MEN to control THEIR behavior.
If what these women are doing is innocent behavior that arouses men, and is not done to be a tease, it is the men who are out of control, not the women.
What you're saying is how Islamic countries that require veiling and covering women believe:
Women's bodies arouse men by default, therefore women need to be hidden, protected, covered so they don't arouse men into rape, sexual arousal or other immoral behavior.
The idea is that it is all women's fault that men feel this way and the only way to control these feelings in men is to control and restrict women. Why not turn this around to expose how absurd this is.
"Men do many things that warrant the attention and interest of women without even realizing it. We're supposed to trust them? It's mad?
A woman should have control over her man. It's because she doesn't that modern relationships aren't working and won't last a lifetime."
Men AND women need to have the freedom to be themselves. Trust is earned through time and experience with a person, man or woman. There's no relationship that can be considered "good" if one person lords it over another or thinks they know better than the other partner. That is not a partnership, it's a dictatorship.
that men's need for protection is something that drives me mad... it's like saying I'm not able to take care of myself... treating me like a clueless kid...
unfortunately, I'm rather short and, in general, small, and it doesn't help me at all... I don't like to be treated that way. And most men can understand I'm grown up and can take care of myself and bear the consequences of my decisions. But still, I have a few delinquents in my life who don't hesitate to openly tell me what to do without even asking for my opinion... and then explain that it's for my own good...
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I don’t believe all women deserve to be protected. They’ll just start getting into trouble on purpose. Knowing they’ll just have men to cover for them. Causing women to become increasingly reckless while never taking responsibility. Ever increasing their entitlement complexes. And what do men get in return for these selfless actions? Sex? A peck on the cheek? Jail time? I guess to some men out there the sex might be worth it. Until they’re forced to pay child support to some bitch who thought to baby trap the guy. 🤷🏻♂️ To each their own I guess
Many women don’t even deserve marriage.
Agreed, they don’t.
Protection is one. Control is another. Controlling is not the same as Protection. Is a man physically stronger than a woman? Yes but Women can't rely on a Man 24/7 this is why I believe equalizers are great. Personally, I'd never want a man that thinks they can control me.
Man: "STAY HERE AND DON'T FOLLOW ME INTO DANGER"
Woman: "YOU CAN'T TELL ME WHAT TO DO YOU CAN'T CONTROL ME
🤷🏻♂️
@SolitarySolace Well 2 together is better than one.
A strong man and a weak woman? She's just get in his way. She'd be a liability and just endanger herself and make his job of keeping her safe that much more difficult
@SolitarySolace You assume a woman has to automatically be weak and a liability. That shows biased views on your part. Its all depends on a scenario by scenario basis and what the danger is.
Women are known as the weaker sex. Even women know this and use it to play the victim card all the time. How it that a bias view on my part?
@SolitarySolace Weaker physically on average? Sure but overall not necesarilly. Your comments suggest a negative bias towards women overall. Also it encourages the idea for women to not take responsibility for their actions.
@SolitarySolace But my comment was mainly aimed towards at the fact they tried to make protection and control the same thing when it isn't.
Women don't take responsibility anyway 🤣 how do you suggest they start doing so? Also you can't always protect something without controlling it in some form. If women don't want to be protected than I say fine. Throw em to the wolves.
Not really, since I'm having trouble understanding what you mean.
What are these women doing that is putting them in danger and they don't realize? Are they wandering into the road and touching hot stoves like toddlers? What are you seeing them do that warrants men needing to get involved?
If control is protection and if men protecting women is obligatory, then men would be obligated to confine women in compounds. If protecting somebody is controlling them, then taking punches for them would be the same as putting them in solitary confinement.
Your definitions there don't make much sense to me.
Its natural. I'm very protective of the people I care about. Not only in relationship but also when it comes to friendships and family. Even at moments they dont like it. I'd rather they hate me and they be safe than they like me and be in danger.
Protecting women and controlling women are two completely different things. Protecting them absolutely makes sense because they have to raise the next generation. Trying to control them is futile and only pushes them to bizarre and dangerous acts of defiance.
Real men can protect women. It is the modern male wimp that will look for any excuse to crawl into their delusional bubble and whine.
"Men need to have some control over their partner."
Go take a long walk off a short pier.
👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻🙌🏻❤️🎯💯😁 He seems to have some unresolved trauma... 🤷🏻♂️
Control is VERY different than protection. YES, trust them until given cause not to! Im uncomfortable with the word control. I want an equal, not a subordinate. A dialogue, not directives. Compromise, not compromised. 🤷🏻♂️
It makes sense why men need to protect women , usually a woman isn’t gonna win in a fight against a man.
Women use the law. The only thing men can't fight back against
Sounds like who you are distrusting here is other men. Maybe figure out how to control them, instead.
Women respect a spanking. And they love seeing another girl getting rebuked and chastised. Their eyes sparkle with excitement.
It's in our Genes.. to protect women and children
I wouldn’t say it’s in our genes… it’s a decision
Quite thought provoking
I'm glad you think so.
Most women want their guy to lead. Even if they don't think they do, they do, it comes naturally to them. Womem want their men to protect and lead.
If you aren't an idiot and are worthy of being a leader, your girl will gladly let you lead.
Also, there is a way to lead while still being respectful. A lot of men don't understand that.
Incel, it literally hurt my head to read that. WTF is wrong with you.
Men are meant to protect women from predators, it's built into us, and that's a good thing
Protecting women should be the default setting for men. But men should only protect women that want to be protected. Use your best judgement.
You sound like an insecure controlling man
We need more insecure controlling men especially in the US because women are getting out of control
@SolitarySolace Women are their own people. Who the fuck gave you the right to control them? Maybe work through your massive fucking trust issues, dude.
Who said I was controlling them? 🤣 You’re so quick to antagonize. What happened to you?
@SolitarySolace Don't be a dick
How am I being a dick? You’re the one being a dick.
@SolitarySolace You said something super asinine and then tried to turn it around on me. It figures why you would wanna control women, you're a manipulative POS.
🤣 I've never been called manipulative before... That'd a new one for the books. How was what I said super asinine? It's true.
@SolitarySolace The fucking last thing the world needs is controlling men. Those are the men who start wars, who wreck other people's lives. We need women to stop breeding with these men so they die out.
Don't we need men like that in order to win wars started against us? And men aren't the only ones who ruin lives, women ruin far more lives than men especially these days in the US. We need Women to stop abusing laws meant to protect them and stop creating new laws for them to abuse.
@SolitarySolace Men like that are gonna side with the aggressor, as they are doing right now with Russia and Israel. Yeah women can be dicks and ruin lives, but that doesn't mean we need more jealous boyfriends in the world.
Men aren't siding with aggressors, you're being paranoid. You're making that up to create a false narrative expecting people to believe it. And who's to blame for jealous boyfriends? I'll give you a hint, it's not the jealous boyfriends.
@SolitarySolace If your girl is cheating on you, break up with her. Staying with her and trying to control her life is a sign of deep insecurity. Or a massive ego, I guess. Either way it is obnoxious. You wouldn't want to be controlled, so don't do it to others.
All 4 of my exes cheated on me. Why would I want to force a cheater to stay with me? Why would any man want a cheating woman to stay with him? Once a cheater always a cheater. You're making shit up to hate on men for no good reason.
Maybe you should try something new and criticize a woman who deserves the criticism for a change
@SolitarySolace There is a difference between criticizing someone and controlling their life.
You're right. And no man is controlling a woman's life. Women are controlling men's lives. You've got it totally backwards
@SolitarySolace Depends on the man
Pretty slim chance of a man being that controlling. You really gotta change your views on this.
@SolitarySolace I'll change my views when I meet someone who convinces me to do so. Doubt that person is you. Insanely ignorant claim there.
No skin off my back. 🤷🏻♂️Hopefully you figure shit out before a woman fucks you over and you end up having to figure it out yourself
@SolitarySolace Yes because the only two options are being a doormat and being Andrew Tate 🙄
What’s wrong with Andrew Tate?
@SolitarySolace Did you have legal trouble because of an interaction with a woman? You hint at it so I'm asking?
Yes, I have. I was falsely accused in college of stalking when I’m a complete homebody and of having a gun and being a potential school shooter when I’ve never owned a gun and still don’t to this day. She served me an ex parte PPO and I was afraid to go anywhere on our tiny campus in fear of bumping into her on my way to class and she panic and call and have me arrested on the spot. Thankfully I was never arrested but that’s because I avoided entire parts of campus. I had to take her to court where all I could do was have my lawyer, who the girl tried to hire for herself by the way, convince her and her family lawyers to have the PPO changed to a civil temporary restraining order and I ended up dropping out of school. I couldn’t sue the girl or do anything. @DrPepper12
@SolitarySolace sry about that. My nephew experienced false accusations too. Shitty situation. Males NEVER get benefit if doubt. Women reign like goddesses in this area of life.
I feel for you nephew… I would wake up dry heaving every morning afraid to go to class… women don’t understand how much power they have and what it does to the men they claim to care about. @DrPepper12
some control over their partner how
By following their lead, by being submissive. In ways you don’t want to. Submission isn’t when you feel like it but by being actually submissive and not bring submissive to outright abuse.
No
that's dumb
I think to some extent it is human nature
No I disagree 100%
Simp?
What now?
Nah that’s not it.
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