He never posts anything anymore and everytime that I ask him why he doesn’t post me he claims that it’s cringy or that he just doesn’t like to so he ends up never doing it. Back then I would get mad and he would end up posting me but now he just refuses to and I’ve been wondering if it’s because of my weight gain and he doesn’t want to get roasted by his friends or something. by the way I am not super obese or anything like that and he could just post my face if he didn’t want to show my body. He has many selfies of me. He doesn’t want to post me or put me as his wallpaper like he used to do. Maybe he loves me less and is embarrassed of me? I keep feeling like he is embarrassed of me and I feel like him not posting me makes it seem like he’s hiding something.
I'm sorry but I think you're wrong here. I don't think this has anything to do with him posting at all.
You say in your question you have put weight on, therefore you are feeling insecure in your relationship and want approval that he still wants you!
It isn't fair on him to make those demands. Everyone has a choice. If you feel insecure about your weight, do something about it, don't put the onus on him to have to show he is ok with it!
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Maybe, and just maybe... if he doesn't post anything., its the fact he... doesn't post anything. Im sick of socials as well. I can completely understand the reasoning behind going offline, keeping it just as a communication app. Why do you care os much anywaz?
You seem insecure. Me and my Husband never posted each other on social media and we're married now and we still don't post each other. Our relationship is too precious for me to show it off. Everyone knows I'm married and everyone knows he's married is not something that we hide from anyone we just find it pointless is not gonna add anything good to our marriage. There's too many nosy and jealous people out there.
The fact that you’re still a girlfriend (and a worried one) after 4 years should tell you everything you need to know.
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Some say that only those who are unhappy will continuously post. Personally, it wouldn’t bother me if a partner didn’t post - the relationship doesn’t hang on whether or not I feature on his social media but more on the other things he does to make me feel loved, safe and appreciated.
You shouldn't be sharing your relationship with everyone. It is a private relationship so why are you inviting everyone to comment on it and tell you and him how to act or feel? He is absolutely right to not want to share relationship stuff publicly you should learn from that. As for setting you as the background that is worth questioning. Just talk to him about it. But you should join him in keeping your private relationship private
That's terrible! I think you should have a talk with him about this.
Do any young people understand the concept of privacy when it comes to social media?
No one gives af what you ate for dinner.If he’s not posting anything, the fact that he’s not posting you is not a problem. Some guys just don’t like to show off on social media.
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showing off is not a big deal n often pointless
he doesn't have to show u off thus it doesn't prove anything but making u feel special
is he posting actively n not posting u or just not a big social media user?
I don't understand social media. It is like pulling your pants down and showing your ass to the world.
Post where? Insta? FB? Yeah I don't do social media so you wouldn't like dating me.
Some guys dont want to show their girls to other men on social media
dose he post anything
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