Girl, I don't think you're being unreasonable at all to ask him to rearrange the songs so it's not spelling out another girl's name. That would make any girlfriend feel weird and insecure, understandably so.
Some thoughts:
- He said himself he deletes those playlists after the relationship ends, so why keep one from an ex labeled with her name? That's going against what he told you he does.
- Even if he forgot about it, once you pointed it out he should want to make you comfortable by changing it. It takes 2 seconds to move some songs around.
- Leaving it as-is with her name does kind of feel like he's not fully over her or wants to hold onto that memory in some way. Not a good look for your current relationship.
I'd stick to your request - it's a small thing for him to do that would put your mind at ease. See how he reacts when you bring it up again too. If he gets defensive or refuses, that would be a red flag to me sis. You deserve a guy who makes your feelings a priority!
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Ease dump him so he can go on and live a happy life without you. You are toxic
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If that's his crime you need a connfidence boost! Harmless.
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