Am I going to be seen as less attractive for being Indian?

[Anonymous]

I know so many Indian guys that are like 29, 31, 32 and their parents are worried that they haven’t found him a girl. Even though they look well and have a good career.

Me personally I’m nice, tall, fit and handsome guy, yet I feel………. different. I see white guys that look worse than me, shit career and aren’t as blessed as me with stunning girlfriends.

Indian guys online have a reputation for being creepy. What do you expect when they don’t get any girls?

Yes indians are naturally going to be seen as less attractive

No I disagree

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+1 y

Like how do I not have a stunning girlfriend? I tick all the boxes

[jennifer_bloom]

I would never date a guy who thinks relationships are transactional and involve only sexual traits and money. If I want a body I can buy, I will visit a cattle farmer for a nice cut of steak. You’re clearly a shallow person with no God if you think humans are measured only by their biological and financial properties.

[Asker]

We are judged and measured by a lot of various factors. If you disagree with that than you live in a delusion

[Anonymous]

Just because you’re “nice, tall, fit and handsome” doesn’t mean that you’re entitled to a stunning girlfriend. Do you actually go out and meet girls in public places? Ask your friend to hook you up? Online dating won’t count, you make better connections with people irl but you still gotta work for it…

[Harshbro]

If he’s actually all those things he’ll always find a hot girlfriend

[Opinion Owner]

@Harshbro that’s true. A lot of people misjudge how nice or good looking they are.

[Asker]

Well I’ll tell you why I believe these things. I get people telling me I’m a nice guy, people tell other people that I’m a sweet guy.
Also, regards looks I get called handsome by various people, I feel like guys tend to hear the truth compared to women. I do match with stunning girls on apps from time to time. But they’re usually unresponsive. I’m also around 6’1or6’2 with a good physique. So does it seem like I’m talking irrationally?

[Opinion Owner]

You can’t really count on dating apps though, like I said, try to meet girls irl. It’s hard to compete on dating apps bcs everything is just so instant and there’s too many options, which is why you’ve probably been unnoticed on dating apps, the competition’s really tough…

[Asker]

I’ve done howdoilook questions and from what I remember it’s like a third think I’m model/very attractive looking and a third think I’m attractive and a third think I’m average and a couple say less.

I’ve done photofeeler my pictures tend to score anywhere from 6.0 to 9.3.

[Opinion Owner]

How do I look questions don’t mean shit tbh lol it you’re not pulling girls irl then there must be something missing. If you’re still getting matches on dating apps then it means you’re considered attractive still but maybe try to be more creative with your opening lines, be quirky and funny in order to stand out

[Asker]

I mean regards your earlier question I don’t meet new people ever. I’m studying and working too much

[Asker]

Tinder isn’t great. But on hinge I had like 100 matches and 50 likes in the space of 2/3 months. But I couldn’t be bothered to talk to them. They were flakey too

[Asker]

I am also a bit shy to go up to a random girl and I have been rejected quite a few times in clubs 🫤

[Harshbro]

Are u getting these compliments from men or women. If it’s the former you have male gaze, women prefer a prettier look

[Opinion Owner]

Yep there’s the answer to your question then. Meeting girls in the club won’t get you a “high value” girlfriend, same goes with dating apps. You can ask friends to introduce you to some eligible girls they might know, or meet girls at your uni, campus clubs

[coachTanthony]

Mindset for anyone matters... I have worked with the best looking rich tall guys that have such low self esteem that they simply willed negatives in their life by worrying about what others have. Can't stay focused on their goals and dreams they focus on what other's have accomplished and say WHY NOT ME.

[ProbablyClueless]

I say this as an American white guy who has known and been friends with a lot of indians throughout life and even dated several indian women.

I haven't met very many people who have anything good to say about Indians.

[BonzoInBitburg]

You don't have a girlfriend because you don't know a damn thing about women. It isn't about being tall, fit with a good career. It's how you make them feel.

[FunkyMonkee]

It depends greatly on who's going to be looking at you and the kind of guy they like.

[Harshbro]

Indian is a death sentence unless handsome and tall

[Asker]

Agreed hahah

[handsomelad70]

You shouldn't be because you're you.