Is it just as hard for women to get dates than men to get dates?

[LadiesFavoriteToy]

Is it hard for women to find dates than it is for men?

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

A date, am actual date from a guy that’s really looking for a relationship and willing to invest time getting to know you, I say yes… a date where the guy thinks you’ll put out on the first or second date, no they’ll be lining up around the block for that🙄

[handsomelad70]

I believe because we men must uually ask out (and spend money on) women, they have it easier to get dates. Think of the ugly women with good-looking boyfriends, while lots of us handsome Brady are ignored by even below-average broads.(It's much worse for us black men, because even the fugliest, least-desirable black women are taught by black "society", especially their often-gruesome mother and sometines, their p***y-whipped father to think themselves "queens" to be worshipped by, not partnered with black men.)

[Cheapskate]

The advantage for black dudes is that certain white women want you for casual sex.

[handsomelad70]

@Cheapskate I know. It's another version of racism, as we're viewed as dumb studs rather than true partners.

[Cheapskate]

I think women view all men as dumb studs TBH...

[handsomelad70]

@Cheapskate But almost ALL of us are seen in that light.

[handsomelad70]

@Cheapskate I'd avoid all but the hottest white women would wanted me a merely a sexual plaything.

[HawkPerception]

Much harder for men to get dates than women. Men who are in the 10% have it about as easy as women though.

As long as you're a semi attractive girl, you can easily find a date by the end of the week, if you put in enough time to filter guys.

Guys do not have as much selection online... we rarely get anyone matching at all. And it's not easy to approach or find the right opportunity to approach in person.

[Cheapskate]

By the end of the week? I would say within the hour.

[Anonymous]

Just as hard I wouldn't know. it's all widespread to what area you're in, who you're after and so on and so on.

But women can struggle in dating too. Remember it's not about just finding anybody. It's about finding the right person, right? And both women and men struggle.

My best friend have been ghosted from guys, lied to, got extremely creepy messages and so on and so forth.

I'm currently in the process of getting over a guy I've only been n one date with, because he doesn't really seem that interested.

[coachTanthony]

Not even close. Men have a much harder time but this is not to say all women have it easy.

[dustybiker2]

Sounds like a bate and catch Q. I disagree with gender excuses.
Anyone can get a date with a respectable amount of effort. Can a person get a date with someone they really click with and might have a chance of a future with... Those are harder for everyone. Attraction often turns us all into fumbling idiots.

[bobalife]

It’s not really a gender thing. I think it is more about the individuals, mutual attraction, and chemistry. Personally I am selective on who I wanna go on a date with because I think about our vibes, compatibility, their character, and long-term.

[Cheapskate]

It is totally a gender thing.

[bobalife]

Well we just have diff opinion then, and that’s okay lol.

[IslaTheWitch]

it isn't gender related... some people have problems interacting with other people... and some other people have too high expectations...

[Cheapskate]

Of course it is gender related. It is worlds apart for men and women.
The only men who have it about as easy as women are gay men.

[Ms_Facesitter]

I wouldn't say it's just as hard to get dates. We have it easier. But I'm speaking dates. When we are talking about a long meaningful relationship, I'd say it's just as hard.

[sheikalana]

Women might have lots of options but those options might not the the ones they want.

Men might have less options and often they go for that option even if they're not exactly their type.

Can be hard for both.

[AmyHew1tt]

Not necessarily hard to get dates, but we have a hard time getting committed, loyal and healthy relationships, instead of guys who only want sex or an open relationship.

[SolitarySolace]

Its easier for women to get everything in life. Dates no different. They're the ones men are supposed to do the asking to. Just to end up her slave and do shit for her she doesn't deserve. But men do it anyway because they're stupid. 🤷🏻‍♂️

[DextroShade]

No, women have it WAY easier. They did an experiment where they created two fake profiles on a dating app: a wealthy-looking, muscular, handsome dude and a morbidly obese woman; the obese woman got more matches than the guy.

[Cheapskate]

LMAO legendary. These women are so used to their privilege that they just assume it's the same for both sexes.

[TommyMountainFigure]

I wouldn't have thought so.. All the supermarkets sell them!

[Peridot25]

Dates: Easier for women, harder for men
Relationships: Harder for both

[HawkPerception]

You mean by a case by case scenario for relationships, right?

[Pennywise_6]

@Peridot25 100s for you.
Totally agree

[justarandomperson_55]

It's hard for women to find a date who doesn't just want sex. And it's hard for men to find a date who doesn't want to date just for money. Both have their own difficulties.

[itsclearlynicholas]

there's also lots to filter

[KrisKris81]

I think, for women, the difficulty is finding a date that is not only after sex. So, I think it's about even.

[JHAYES317]

Nah much easier. For most women that is. I’m sure there are definitely unattractive women out there who would struggle nearly as much men though.

[DarkWinterNights]

I think men have dating worse, but women have a harder time getting relationships (commitment).

[KrakenAttackin]

Not at all. All a woman has to do is pull an orbiter out of her friend zone.

[genericname85]

at around 20 it's harder for men. at 30+ it's harder for women.

[genericname85]

i mean we're talking about "getting dates" right? not about "getting dates with people you're actually attracted to and that you can actually see yourself being with in the foreseeable future" right? because that's equally hard for both genders at all ages.

[In_Trance]

Much easier for women

[Anonymous]

If a man goes in a bar and ask 10 women out he will get rejected 9 times out of 10.

If a woman goes in a bar and 10 men on a date she will get accepted 9 times out of 10

[KittygosMeoWW]

It’s hard for me personally because I’m very picky and also don’t go out as much anymore.