Girls, Is a overprotective boyfriend a natural thing?

[Anonymous]

[shafiya]

it is normal to be overprotective in a relationship by both partners but in guys Case situation matters all the time. If he gets overprotective, you going out with your mixed gender friends Then he don’t trust you or sometimes in some cases they don’t trust other guys. if he gets overprotective in a situation like You don’t feel that great, but wanted to go on a long trip but he doesn’t want you to go out. That is something caring but overprotective as well.

[Asker]

What if he scare or bully your annoying harassing or toxic friends or acquaintances

[shafiya]

Sis at the first place you don’t have to go through any toxic bully relationship as that’s not your parent raised you for. That’s not at all overprotective that’s psychopath. He is Psycho my love take yourself out of as soon as you can , it’s not gonna be a good ending. May God be with you.

[678987]

annoying someone you know is annoying her is a good way. Like "let her alone"

[DishLady]

Some guys are just protective once they love a person. It's not unnatural at all. It's actually one of the sweetest things and many women crave this in a relationship because it helps to make them feel safe and loved.


However it's not healthy to be "overprotective" (jealous, clinging, needy), so just make sure you're not falling into this category.

[Anonymous]

Overprotective in which way?

If you want to make sure she is ok and happy and if she needs help this is good

but if, on the other hand, you want to know and control what she wears, going out with this is a problem.

[Asker]

Overprotective in natural masculine what

[Opinion Owner]

yes but like what? give examples. what is "natural masculine" for you?

[Abbycado]

I think there is some truth to being protective, not overprotective. That is subjective too.

[Asker]

So it is natural

[LaurenM1997]

It is a natural thing just as long as it’s not controlling or anything like that

[Anonymous]

Do u feel overprotective? Wdym protective? What do u exactly feel

[Asker]

I feel protective occasionally over girls I like

[Opinion Owner]

What are u trying to protect them from lol

[IslaTheWitch]

no... extremes are toxic...

[laly520]

overprotective how exactly

[Asker]

Protective 2 caring maki se she safe and she ok, speak aggressive to guy friend or acqiinrence if they harass or bother her a lot, tell her what she can. And can't wear or go out
Varying levels of overprotection
First thing is level 1
Other thing. are 2 and 3
Level 4 is hacking her fb 2 yell at people

[Plugs]

Which level are u capable of

[Asker]

@Plugs 1 and maybe 2 occasionally

[678987]

Hacking her FB? hahaha you are a psycho, WTF is the problem with u?

[678987]

You have to chill. Every girl with disappear if you make this stated above. Just "Protective 2 caring maki se she safe and she ok, speak aggressive to guy friend or acqiinrence if they harass or bother her a lot," is ok.
"tell her what she can wear/can do" Dude you're not her bodyguard or dad, she can wear how she wants. You adapt

[Asker]

I said I didn't do that one

[Asker]

I said 2 occasionally

[Plugs]

How can they harass her? Wdym harass?

[Asker]

@Plugs it was a nuanced point

[Asker]

@Plugs I wouldn't act on that one everytime

[Agape93]

No, and it's annoying