Do you agree with my opinion on attractive guys who date and marry?

[jennifer_bloom]

I think if a guy always has girls chasing after him, the one that does not chase after him is the one he will choose.

[ThaMaskedMarvel]

I have seen extensive videos on Youtube that say that women will chase the 1 guy that ignores her. This is predominantly a woman thing because they get tons more men approaching them on average than men will ever get. I think it's opposite for men -- especially attractive men. I think that men looking for marriage will go after who values him more & gives him the most attention. The only reasons he'd have for going after that 1 woman would be if (1) he's bored/curious if he can get her or (2) if he's like "Wow, she pays no attention to my looks. I think she's the one for me. These other women only want me for my looks but she seems like she's more about inner qualities." Both of those situations are extremely super rare. Predominantly speaking, men would just be happy with all the attention, while women would wonder where the heck it went if someone isn't giving it to them.

[Anonymous]

Well, not necessarily
If a girl genuinely loves me and is interested to be with me, why would I put in effort for a girl who is not?
Yeah Maybe if I find the other girl attractive I might give it a try , but I'd never chase girls when I already have girl (s) interested in me