My boyfriend and I had an argument and the topic came up on how he used to have random girls numbers and his exes numbers (when he first started dating), and how he didn't get rid of them until I started going bat shit crazy. Now after 2 years I feel like I should have left him before it self. I'm slowly losing feelings because I feel disgusted. What would you think you would have done in my situation at the moment?
Ugh, girl I don't blame you for feeling gross about that. Keeping exes' numbers when you're starting a new relationship is so wack. Like, why does he even need their numbers still?
I'd be getting major ick vibes too if I were you. The fact that he only deleted them cause you got mad is super sketch. Makes it seem like he wasn't really over them or something. Like, you shouldn't have to force a dude to get rid of his exes out of his phone. That should be a no-brainer when he's dating someone new.
Honestly if it were me, I don't think I could get past that. The trust would be broken ya know? Like now you'll always be wondering what else he's hiding or if he'd go back to an ex. You deserve way better than that baggage, girl!
I'd say trust your gut - if you're really losing feelings after two years, it's probably not gonna get better. Don't waste more time on a dude who can't even properly leave the past in the past. You can do so much better, babe! You got this.
Break up with him cause you clearly can't let shit go and you're going to hold this over him forever
I still have my ex’s number and my old hookup’s number bcs I just don’t usually delete contacts. So personally I wouldn’t make a fuss about this issue, my boyfriend still has all of his exes numbers as well. The only thing I care about is if he still has nudes from his past hookups or exes…
i feel like in a situation like this there must be something underlying to make you want to leave for something from 2 years ago - maybe you're only just gaining some self-respect but i can't really judge the situation
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