Guys, do you like when a woman chases you or do you care if she doesn’t?

Question

Ladies, do you chase? Or replace?

ZackBan · Accepted Answer

My answer to this changed over tbe years.

I used to say the chase didn't matter and I didn't mind it.

But being chased by a woman is a game of russian roulette.
She could be in it for the good time but she could also be trying to "fix you" and settle you down when you don't want to.
That can be dangerous.

LiamS95 · Accepted Answer

It depends on which woman is chasing me.

Finchie40 · Answer

I prefer having a girl chase me , mainly from my own personal experiences with girls’ the ones that chased me , are the relationships that lasted the longest Most females know what they want and what they are after Most females have a lot more options to choose From than guys’ tend to have. So if she wants me , she doesn’t really treat me like a convenience, she makes me her priority compared to the girls’ I chased that eventually started treating me like a convenience

AviatorTom · Answer

My father once told me that he chased my mother until she caught him. They were married for almost 50 years, until he passed away.

ManOnFire · Answer

It's fun. It's nice to know a woman is into you that much, but it's not required for me.

DishLady · Answer

The problem here is whether someone values themselves — their own time, gifts, etc. If they value themselves they won't chase someone who doesn't value them. If we were meant to chase, we'd have four legs… it would be faster.

Some guys like to chase — a risidual effect of the "hunter-gatherer" instinct — but then their egoes get in the way when they THINK the woman is going to figure out that they're not "all that and a bag of chips." So then the "fight or flight" kicks in and… you guessed it… flight seems to be the dominant thing (ghosting, gaslighting, not taking accountability for starting something they don't plan to see through).

To sum up… ladies don't chase, they value themselves and the people around them enough to find the person who is right for them rather than chasing (which is an empty activity). Gentlemen may do a minimal amount of chasing to feel the satisfaction of a challenge (as part of an ancient reflex), but excessive chasing indicates that they don't value their own time. Respect yoursleves and the right person will come when you're ready.

Keyboardkat · Answer

Many years ago a girl chased me. It was loads of fun being chased by a beautiful, sensual girl. Problem was, I fell hard for her, and we were an item for a few months, but then she turned off. I think the problem was she needed a challenge to stay interested, and now the challenge was gone, although she said she loved me. I trusted her and told her how I felt, and within a fairly short time she began to change. If I had stayed aloof from her and remained a "challenge," she might have stuck around, but how long can a person do that? I mean, that's playing mind games. I'm not into games.

itsclearlynicholas · Answer

I'd rather direct. Honesty is the best policy. Since now woman ever dared be direct with me not even flirt directly with me, they lost out and I've been single all this time.
After all, women could've asked anytime to me, there's never been a wedding ring 💍 to see and so I never walked in with a chick on my arm

TommyMountainFigure · Answer

If I was single I still wouldn't chase a woman. I'd just be myself and do what I tell other single people to do.

Go shopping and speak to women just by making polite conversation. It works because everyone goes shopping, and being pleasant doesn't hurt, It isn't creepy and you never know where it might lead!

Lynx122 · Answer

I like it more than the other way around where I'm trying to be good to a girl and she just tolerates me until I askher and she tells me she's not that into me. That happened to me when I was younger in my current relationship she chased me more and it's going well. There are still some issues sometimes but she likes me and I like her so it's good.

Unit1 · Answer

I love it when girls show super duper obvious interest in me (not just looking at me for 2 seconds) and even make a move.

There's a reason we're getting AI Girlfriend simulators and it's gaining popularity day after day.

Guys, do you like when a woman chases you or do you care if she doesn’t?

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magiusX26 · Answer

does not matter for me anymore as i will not participate it fating again. that includes 1. n. s. offers. back when i entertained this aspect of insanity, i would have preffered her to chase a little, if for no other teason than to let me know she is actually intetested.

Lliam · Answer

I like when they show interest, send signals or take initiative. And if I am slow on the uptake, it's great if they keep trying. But if I show disinterest, chasing becomes annoying. I mean, "Get a clue. Do I have to be rude?"

DryGermanGuy · Answer

All is fair in love and war. 🤔😬 I hope she would not  literally  chase me, though. That would look awkward.

genericname85 · Answer

i mean if i didn't care about her, that would be annoying. if i was super into her, that would be nice.

JHAYES317 · Answer

I’m not like most men…I don’t enjoy the chase. I’d much rather a woman give me her number or ask for my insta than the other way around.

worldscolide · Answer

My wife chased me.. Im married 9 years now, what does that tell you?

Nikki1989 · Answer

I have asked men out, but I would never chase a man.

Markymark92 · Answer

I like it but sometimes I don’t catch onto the signs lmao, I’ve been told multiple times I’m horrible at seeing the signs 😂

PeachyPie93 · Answer

I used to chase, but now if I don't feel wanted, or more then an option I just move on there is no need to chase what is not meant for you.

Chazmatazz269 · Answer

I do like it when a woman openly expresses her interest in me.   The two times i felt actually “chased”, it was very stalkery. Not a fan.

SYTHOX · Answer

Yeah it's nice, especially since I I'm not very social or see it as a point to chase after someone unless they're also willing to put in some work without all the games. It's nice to be "chased" feels much more mutual that way

slatyb · Answer

Games are for children. I don't have to be chased, and if a woman refuses me I'm not going to ask again.

blondfrog · Answer

That only works if I like her back. Otherwise its just stalking then.

Billlewis · Answer

I don't find it necessary for her to pursue me; I expect her to make me chase her.

spartan55 · Answer

I don't get into any of that. I don't think anyone should be chasing anyone.

CVNT5 · Answer

I want a girl to chase me💕 that lets me know she is interested and wants to get to know me. that way i can ask more about her personal life and take her out to dates. if she chases me, she has a high chance of being married to me in the near future but, once we are together, i want her to be clingy to me.

NathanDavis · Answer

when I was five to six years old... I certainly hated teen girls chasing me around...

TallAnon · Answer

Depends, if it turns into an obsession/stalking, it gets weird.

Iron_Man · Answer

I actually love it. It shows that she really cares about me.

Juxtapose · Answer

It's literally the only way I get dates. Initiation just does not work out that well for me.

Awesomesauce2005 · Answer

Personally, I would love to have a girl hunt me down like wild game, but that isn't reality.

scooogy · Answer

Been chased in the past, but mostly in college. Rather wrong time for me.

WillL89 · Answer

I like it, to it shows she truly likes you and wants to be with you.

Wausguy85 · Answer

Men also like to feel desired just as much well I want a woman to show me some desire also there was a study done on it too lol

northerngal · Answer

I do not chase... but i will communicate my interest.

Willthonger · Answer

I would love that even feel very excited about it

dustybiker2 · Answer

I never chased. I lured. Far sexier.

Dou1994 · Answer

It depends who she is to be honest

dolemite58 · Answer

I think if a woman is into you she’ll meet you halfway in terms of putting in effort/chasing you too

TheUniqueOne96 · Answer

I like the idea of being chased.

Babygirl_S · Answer

I don't chase.

IWILLPLEASEYOU · Answer

If a girl I have been trying to get her she won't have to chase me much!

Cheerfull009 · Answer

If she is attractive, sexy, then I like her so no problem if ugly then no need

Nifrayu · Answer

Of course I do. It makes me feel desired.

debtfree_oneyear · Answer

no women is chasing me

Luckycharms12 · Answer

We all like to feel wanted

Fuentes · Answer

I don't really care lol

LEGENDARY4200 · Answer

It's always nice when she takes initiative

Mr1derful · Answer

Sure!

OtterMan68 · Answer

Yes, I'd love it

LunarEclipse433 · Answer

I love it

dudeinohio · Answer

Absolutely

Amur8711 · Answer

How you know if you been chased

Slim57 · Answer

If I like her yes

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

That all depends

MaxUsefull · Answer

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