Ladies, do you chase? Or replace?
989 opinions shared on Dating topic. My answer to this changed over tbe years.
I used to say the chase didn't matter and I didn't mind it.
But being chased by a woman is a game of russian roulette.
She could be in it for the good time but she could also be trying to "fix you" and settle you down when you don't want to.
That can be dangerous.20 Reply
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366 opinions shared on Dating topic. It depends on which woman is chasing me.
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3.1K opinions shared on Dating topic. I prefer having a girl chase me , mainly from my own personal experiences with girlsā the ones that chased me , are the relationships that lasted the longest Most females know what they want and what they are after Most females have a lot more options to choose From than guysā tend to have. So if she wants me , she doesnāt really treat me like a convenience, she makes me her priority compared to the girlsā I chased that eventually started treating me like a convenience
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1 yMy father once told me that he chased my mother until she caught him. They were married for almost 50 years, until he passed away.
40 Reply 1.2K opinions shared on Dating topic. It's fun. It's nice to know a woman is into you that much, but it's not required for me.
30 Reply3.5K opinions shared on Dating topic. The problem here is whether someone values themselves ā their own time, gifts, etc. If they value themselves they won't chase someone who doesn't value them. If we were meant to chase, we'd have four legs⦠it would be faster.
Some guys like to chase ā a risidual effect of the "hunter-gatherer" instinct ā but then their egoes get in the way when they THINK the woman is going to figure out that they're not "all that and a bag of chips." So then the "fight or flight" kicks in and⦠you guessed it⦠flight seems to be the dominant thing (ghosting, gaslighting, not taking accountability for starting something they don't plan to see through).
To sum up⦠ladies don't chase, they value themselves and the people around them enough to find the person who is right for them rather than chasing (which is an empty activity). Gentlemen may do a minimal amount of chasing to feel the satisfaction of a challenge (as part of an ancient reflex), but excessive chasing indicates that they don't value their own time. Respect yoursleves and the right person will come when you're ready.26 Reply- 1 y
@Juxtapose this doesn't Even work for women.
Lately i concluded for myself, that women tend to give the worst dating advises. Just hear this one.
Their Question: how to get a boyfriend?
Their answer: do nothing. Let them come to you.
1 yMany years ago a girl chased me. It was loads of fun being chased by a beautiful, sensual girl. Problem was, I fell hard for her, and we were an item for a few months, but then she turned off. I think the problem was she needed a challenge to stay interested, and now the challenge was gone, although she said she loved me. I trusted her and told her how I felt, and within a fairly short time she began to change. If I had stayed aloof from her and remained a "challenge," she might have stuck around, but how long can a person do that? I mean, that's playing mind games. I'm not into games.
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1 yI'd rather direct. Honesty is the best policy. Since now woman ever dared be direct with me not even flirt directly with me, they lost out and I've been single all this time.
After all, women could've asked anytime to me, there's never been a wedding ring 💍 to see and so I never walked in with a chick on my arm16 Reply@Pinay_ako short answer: never been chased, was never flirted with or even plainly asked out or flirted by, so you know: the women lost out for it and lol they probably ended up with far lower standards š§š
@Pinay_ako they probably ended up with guys fatter, smellier. I'm slim and fit. So you know. Jokes on those women throughout my 20s, lol huh? Theyd stare or they'd glare, yet they never had guts to ask me or even to flirt with me, so I wasn't gonna ask them out or do the hard yards for them. So yeah, luckier me šāļø happier single me šš»š
@Pinay_ako that's a very insightful question and the answer is: yes and the reasoning why is because: that's how things have played out or been written, true? After all, a man can't pick where he's born or undo his past or have time stand still or ask for 3 wishes and so on and so on. So given all the whole picture, I'd say I'm happy enough, despite my moody moments lol š
@Pinay_ako However, if I had my choice in how I'd like to have written my own script, without losing my present day memories and experiences, I'd for one write my own story the way I'd like. Lol š ah well
@Pinay_ako and the 20s passed me by. š Ah well. š
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1 yIf I was single I still wouldn't chase a woman. I'd just be myself and do what I tell other single people to do.
Go shopping and speak to women just by making polite conversation. It works because everyone goes shopping, and being pleasant doesn't hurt, It isn't creepy and you never know where it might lead!
10 Reply 978 opinions shared on Dating topic. I like it more than the other way around where I'm trying to be good to a girl and she just tolerates me until I askher and she tells me she's not that into me. That happened to me when I was younger in my current relationship she chased me more and it's going well. There are still some issues sometimes but she likes me and I like her so it's good.
10 Reply3.2K opinions shared on Dating topic. I love it when girls show super duper obvious interest in me (not just looking at me for 2 seconds) and even make a move.
There's a reason we're getting AI Girlfriend simulators and it's gaining popularity day after day.

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00 Reply2.2K opinions shared on Dating topic. does not matter for me anymore as i will not participate it fating again. that includes 1. n. s. offers. back when i entertained this aspect of insanity, i would have preffered her to chase a little, if for no other teason than to let me know she is actually intetested.
10 Reply2.5K opinions shared on Dating topic. I like when they show interest, send signals or take initiative. And if I am slow on the uptake, it's great if they keep trying. But if I show disinterest, chasing becomes annoying. I mean, "Get a clue. Do I have to be rude?"
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m 1 yAll is fair in love and war. 🤔😬
I hope she would not literally chase me, though. That would look awkward.20 Reply - 8.8K opinions shared on Dating topic.
1 yi mean if i didn't care about her, that would be annoying. if i was super into her, that would be nice.
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Depends on if I see any sort of reciprocated affection otherwise. If I don't, I'll assume she's not into me.
307 opinions shared on Dating topic. Iām not like most menā¦I donāt enjoy the chase. Iād much rather a woman give me her number or ask for my insta than the other way around.
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@Pinay_ako because rejection gets old fast especially when itās for the same reasons every time
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1 yMy wife chased me.. Im married 9 years now, what does that tell you?
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Thank you!
16.8K opinions shared on Dating topic. I have asked men out, but I would never chase a man.
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1 yI like it but sometimes I donāt catch onto the signs lmao, Iāve been told multiple times Iām horrible at seeing the signs 😂
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Makes things fun and flirtatious from both sides
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1 yI used to chase, but now if I don't feel wanted, or more then an option I just move on there is no need to chase what is not meant for you.
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1 yI do like it when a woman openly expresses her interest in me.
The two times i felt actually āchasedā, it was very stalkery. Not a fan.10 Reply Yeah it's nice, especially since I I'm not very social or see it as a point to chase after someone unless they're also willing to put in some work without all the games. It's nice to be "chased" feels much more mutual that way
10 Reply12.8K opinions shared on Dating topic. Games are for children. I don't have to be chased, and if a woman refuses me I'm not going to ask again.
10 Reply3.9K opinions shared on Dating topic. That only works if I like her back. Otherwise its just stalking then.
41 Reply2.2K opinions shared on Dating topic. I don't find it necessary for her to pursue me; I expect her to make me chase her.
10 Reply3.7K opinions shared on Dating topic. I don't get into any of that. I don't think anyone should be chasing anyone.
10 ReplyI want a girl to chase me💕 that lets me know she is interested and wants to get to know me. that way i can ask more about her personal life and take her out to dates. if she chases me, she has a high chance of being married to me in the near future but, once we are together, i want her to be clingy to me.
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m 1 ywhen I was five to six years old... I certainly hated teen girls chasing me around...
10 Reply 2.6K opinions shared on Dating topic. Depends, if it turns into an obsession/stalking, it gets weird.
20 Reply19.1K opinions shared on Dating topic. I actually love it. It shows that she really cares about me.
10 Reply3K opinions shared on Dating topic. It's literally the only way I get dates. Initiation just does not work out that well for me.
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1 yPersonally, I would love to have a girl hunt me down like wild game, but that isn't reality.
10 Reply2.1K opinions shared on Dating topic. Been chased in the past, but mostly in college. Rather wrong time for me.
10 ReplyI like it, to it shows she truly likes you and wants to be with you.
10 ReplyMen also like to feel desired just as much well I want a woman to show me some desire also there was a study done on it too lol
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1 yI do not chase... but i will communicate my interest.
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1 yI would love that even feel very excited about it
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1 yI never chased. I lured. Far sexier.
20 Reply It depends who she is to be honest
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1 yI think if a woman is into you sheāll meet you halfway in terms of putting in effort/chasing you too
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1 yI like the idea of being chased.
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1 yI don't chase.
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1 yIf a girl I have been trying to get her she won't have to chase me much!
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1 yIf she is attractive, sexy, then I like her so no problem if ugly then no need
00 Reply 340 opinions shared on Dating topic. Of course I do. It makes me feel desired.
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1 yno women is chasing me
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1 yWe all like to feel wanted
10 Reply 3.7K opinions shared on Dating topic. I don't really care lol
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1 yIt's always nice when she takes initiative
10 Reply340 opinions shared on Dating topic. Sure!
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1 yYes, I'd love it
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1 yI love it
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1 yAbsolutely
10 Reply 520 opinions shared on Dating topic. How you know if you been chased
00 Reply4.5K opinions shared on Dating topic. If I like her yes
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1 yThat all depends
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On the girl and the situation but I know I'd love the attention. Have you ever chased a guy
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If I don't like the girl it's annoying that's why I said it depends on the girl
1 yDefine chase
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