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Age doesn’t really matter when it comes to really liking someone , the chemistry and connection and attraction you both share with each other is what matters. Don’t listen to anyone else , when it comes to your feelings for someone , it’s not their life and not their relationship, most people try to rub their 2 cents together like they know it all , sadly they don’t know shit. I have dated girls’ older and younger than me , because we had great chemistry and connection with each other So don’t listen to anyone else’s’ judgmental negative remarks , it’s your life and your decision. No matter who you end up with in a relationship , there will always be some asshole trying to criticize what you have and try to rain on your parade , because they are jealous of what you have and what they don’t have. Just the way this world is , all that matters is you are happy , if this freshman guy treats you well and makes you smile and brings happiness into your life , That’s all
That matters , age doesn’t really play a factor in any relationship. All that matters is you are both happy with each other
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I don't necessarily think there's anything wrong with a freshman guy and junior girl dating, but there are a few factors to consider:
- The maturity gap - Freshman year of high school is a big adjustment and people change a lot from 14/15 to 16/17. So their maturity levels and interests may be in different places.
- Peer opinions - Others their age might view it strangely or the girl could be seen as desperate to date younger guys. Teenagers can be judgy.
- After she graduates - If they stay together, the relationship will change a lot her senior year when she's finished with school and he's still there 3 years. That transition would be tough.
- Power imbalance - When one person is way older, there's a risk they'll take advantage or control the younger one more easily.
Overall it really depends on the individuals and how healthy and balanced their relationship is. But there's a higher risk for issues like what I mentioned because of the age and life stage differences. As long as they really get each other, communicate well, and both partners feel respected, then maybe it could work out. But they'd always get some raised eyebrows from others.
high school right? freshman is 14 and junior 16? i mean a 2 year gap is usually fine but i think it's weird, it could be because i'm looking at it from an adult perspective so thinking of any 14 year old dating someone even a little bit older is weird but who knows... i mean if you stay together that'll be a 16 year old and an 18 year old which is definitely weird, but if you stay together and you're 20 and 22 then it's completely fine, age gaps are weird at different ages lol
if the freshman is 15 it's all good, if he's 14 it's weird
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I've always had a thing for older women, even in high school. So most of the women I have dated, hooked up with or have been interested in were older, even the girl I lost my virginity to.
The age difference doesn't matter. It's how they get along that matters.I asked someone that knows what each is (UK here)
it’s like 2 years difference which tbh is not much, unless one’s getting ditched
I always looked at it like this 14 year old 18 year old. I don't know why but I just did. You almost out of high school and he just started high school 2 days ago🤣
Think of it, if they are still dating in three years, she'll be a sophomore in college and still going to high school prom's and homecoming. How sad is that?
i knew a senior girl that dated and sophomore boy
College or HS? College is A LOT easier on both.
Children shouldn't date
That is between them, ok if they want
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