Is he really okay and cool with everything?

[Anonymous]

I recently started chatting with this guy whom I met on a dating site. His 8 years younger than me which is of concern for me but he is very cool about it. We are also of different religions but his also okay with that saying that I can follow my faith even after marriage. I am a divorcee and I have 2 kids from previous marriage and his also okay with that. Now my problem is if his that good or is he pretending to be so.

[TommyMountainFigure]

You know absolutely nothing about the guy, and we know even less. I would suggest err on the side of caution.

Someone wise once said. "If something looks too good to be true? It usually isn't!"

[Asker]

Thanks will keep that in mind

[TommyMountainFigure]

You're welcome.

[ProbablyClueless]

There's no way to know until you interact with him more.

[MsProsperity]

Just keep communicating with him, with time you’ll know. Maybe you can ask him questions

[Asker]

Thank you

[Anonymous]

What's his religion?

[Asker]

His dad is Muslim but his mum is Hindu... according to him he doesn't follow any in particular and to him it doesn't matter what faith I believe in.

[Opinion Owner]

Muslim are tough to be trusted. Still you can test him. You can ask him religious questions and see how he reacts to it how he responds to it. Questions like why Muhammad married 9 years old girl and had sex with her when she was just 9 year old, don't you feel he did wrong. Or why muslim allowed sex slavery etc. You can get more such questions through YouTube channel "Adam seeker" and "Adam seeker urdu". And see how he responds.

No matter a muslim follow religion or not when in his heart Islam does exist it's going to be problem. It's more dangerous. And through his response you would know very well that Islam does exist in his heart or not.

If being illogical he defends it that's red sign. If he agrees that Muhammad did wrong then you can think about it. Also tell him to watch those YouTube channels and see how he reacts to it.

If he reacts positively and do start listening those debates you can think of moving further. If he resist it's red flag.

[Opinion Owner]

And yes never ever you get converted to Islam. No matter what excuse he gives you.

[Opinion Owner]

And also one thing can be shocking to you but if you have daughter from your previous marriage and if this guy ever turn back to Islam in his life again start following his islamic value then according to Islam this guy can marry and have sex with your that daughter because according to Islam there is no concept of adoption. Because these daughters aren't his biological daughters it's absolutely halal for him.

[Asker]

Thanks for your opinion however I am not against any religion nor would I want to put his religion down even though if he is a follower or not. But yes I will keep in mind your points and suggestions.

[Opinion Owner]

Neither I am against any religion but nothing wrong to accept what's reality. For example yes it's very good to stay kind to all organism on the earth but it would be foolishness to put scorpion over hand try to pet it. I'm not telling you to jidge him because of religion but I'm asking you to test him first that how far the poison of Islam is inside him.