How do I stop being scared to talk to pretty girls?

[Anonymous]

I’m scared, don’t know what to say. Yeah

[zeitgeist057]

Don't focus on pretty girls, but rather talk to everyone. As you get more comfortable talking to everyone, just include pretty girls in your scope of practice. Treat them with the same kindness and respect you do the other people you engage with, and don't pay much attention to the "pretty factor". Try to see the person behind the looks, to understand them better and have a better chance of developing a closer connection.

[answers_questions]

Most likely she doesn't think she's pretty. But if you say you like her, and she asks you why, say that she's pretty and say something else about her personality. Look at it from her point of view - if she doesn't think she's pretty, her self-worth is not as good as it could be... if you tell her, she'll credit the lift in self-worth to you - and if she doesn't, then she's obviously not the person you thought her to be... all of this is, if you want to date her... if not, then take the aspects of this answer that you want.

[laraWM]

You need to talk to them more often to get used to it. Just as you can talk to your male friends

[Static_In_The_Attic]

As for me I always say communication is the key & if you can make someone laugh that can unlock a lot of doors. Be yourself brother, grow a set & all I can say is don’t be a pussy go get it instead. In life I always say if you never try you will never know & as for me I rather try & fail rather than not try at all.

Don’t limit yourself talking to just pretty girls, talk to all girls & if you make a wonderful connection or a friend out of the deal life is good.

Condoms prevent minivans, remember that.

[Anonymous]

What if I told you being scared of them is an automatic rejection?

So approach with this mindset. If you're scared you're guaranteed to fail. So there's no reason to be scared.

I was just like you when I was your age. The problem is you're giving women far to much importance in your life. If you only realized what a drag on your life MOST of these women WILL be. The ONLY thing you'll be scared of is not properly vetting them and choosing the wrong one.

[BonzoInBitburg]

Friend zone them at the beginning. You're not in a relationship so don't try to skip the part about getting to know them where you need to talk to them like friends do

[mandyfire98]

Just treat them like normal people. Don't worship them. Talk to them the same way you would other friends

[DryGermanGuy]

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=03aknS41b84

[mandyfire98]

I so hope you say that to your friends 😂

[DryGermanGuy]

Only as part of quoting movies back and forth! :-)

[mandyfire98]

Boooooo

[Anonymous]

talk to pretty girls who are already your friends. if a friend told me he was scared to talk to pretty girls i would suck his dick

[zeitgeist057]

You sound like a wonderful friend <3

[Fireguy17]

what's to be scared of.
They poop just like us and it probably smells bad.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Never force anything in life. Wheather she's pretty or not let things happen naturally and if you click then naturally the conversation will happen.

[Anonymous]

Why do you wanna talk to every pretty girl you see? Don't be desperate, that's so less masculine and a turn off

[laly520]

work on ur confidence