Why don’t guys want to date or marry a girl who’s a slut?

[Anonymous]

Why is that?

[HappyWoman34]

I am an ex ho. I’ve got a body count of 11 men. I’m not openly passing judgment on whether it’s right or wrong to be a virgin or an experienced woman, however, I’ll say this. Some guys want a woman as inexperienced as they themselves are, either because it’s a fetish, religious reasons, or believing that non virgin women are used goods. Men’s property. Other men want an experienced woman that they can enjoy better sex with, to their perspective. Some men again, may prefer a virgin, but they’re looking for someone they can love for who they are, who in turn can love them for who they are. They don’t care about a woman’s experience.

[DrPepper12]

11 is NOT a ho. Not by a longshot

[HappyWoman34]

@DrPepper12 thanks 😊

[Papa21]

I would never in my life say you are or was a ho, honestly, 11 is a reasonable number. And you are good looking too….

[DishLady]

Personally, I don't like that title for any woman... even those who have partied a little too hard. But some guys don't want to be with a woman who has been with everyone... who can't be "theirs" in a true, infinite sense.

In 2024... I'll only say "some guys" are like this because standards have changed (for many, many reasons) and most are not still expecting the virginal bride by the time they're ready to settle down and commit to a woman (typically now in their late 20s or mid-30s.

[DextroShade]

Many reasons:

• She is more likely to have an STD
• She is more likely to be a baby momma
• She is going to have a much harder time pair-bonding with any guy
• She is more likely to have trauma and bad habits
• She is more likely to initiate breakup or divorce
• Men get embarrassed if they bring a woman into a social setting and other guys there have had her

[DrPepper12]

Statements that say "more likely" are sus without data.

[DextroShade]

@DrPepper12 some things are self-evident or follow basic logic, which your woke mind-virus addled mind clearly struggles with.

[billmunch]

Actually, I once dated an active prostitute, so I have zero problem with slutty women and relationships. A high body count is actually a plus and a turn on in my books.

[Finchie40]

Because she more than likely isn’t loyal and she probably has some sort of STD’s

[DrPepper12]

How in the HELL do you equate loyalty with promiscuousness or non safe sex practices? WTF?

[4ngelic]

they're worried about her cheating, falling out of love more easily, they dont like to imagine a lot of other guy's dicks having been inside her, it makes them look bad if people know, they dont think she will have the personality traits of a good girlfriend/wife

[DrPepper12]

All assumptions having to do with HIS insecurities, not her past.

[MrOracle]

@DrPepper12 The best predictor of future behavior is past behavior. This is why companies do background checks, or don't hire felons. It's why for many jobs a college degree (of ANY kind, even when not relevant to the job) is seen as adding value to the candidate.

You can pretend a person's past doesn't matter, but to most of the world, it does and always will.

[DrPepper12]

@MrOracle yeah. I'm used to being the outlier 😁

[EmmaMary]

Probably for the same reasons why the majority of women wouldn't want to date or marry a pathetic lowlife juvenile lying cheating player.

[Kaneki05]

Women only became allowed to be sexual and vote within the past 100 years. People on a whole are still very conservative it will take a long time before that flips truly.

[patois]

Marriage is a commitment thing between a single man and women. It a serious matter that requires restraint... Being a slut is about having casual and unrestrained sexual behavior. Being a slut and being married are polar opposites...

[DrPepper12]

Wrong. Just wrong. Divorce rates are NOT CORRELATED to prior promiscuousness. They are correlated to INFIDELITY once married. Maybe marriage causes promiscuity?

[patois]

@DrPepper12 Marriage doesn't cause infidelity. Selfish people that lack loyalty and respect for people choose with their own free will to cheat on others. They do that regardless of if they get married or not. They are narcissistic in nature. Their low self esteem drives them to seek approval, thus they want to meet "life milestones" such as getting marries, to earn approval from those around them.

[elaphe]

I think men like to feel like they are special to their partner and not just another fling. On a practical note, you have slept with everyone she has slept with plus all of the people her sexual partners have been with, ad infinitum, as for as STIs are concerned.

[sheenagwapa]

this doesn't really have something to do with the question but i just wanna share that Mary Magdalene is a prostitute but she is (other than Mama Mary of course) the woman closest to Jesud. When Jesus resurrected who saw him first? Mary Magdalene.

[MrOracle]

Yes, but he didn't marry her, did he? Forgiving her from a religious standpoint is different from choosing that person to be your relationship partner.

[9in_Serpent]

I would love to date or marry any slut! They are the kindest and most loving and caring and free spirited and fun people you could meet

[PeachyPie93]

Lmao meet my uncles wife, fucked all his friends even my dad only married him because she thought she could take his house, when she found out she couldn't she stayed. Good luck with these so called loving and caring people 😂🤮

[9in_Serpent]

Good luck with all the built in hate in your heart that will slowly rot you away trust me…

[PeachyPie93]

LOL that would only happen if I actually had a heart :P

[9in_Serpent]

I know and i am sorry i hope you can learn to forgive them and most importantly forgive yourself and learn to love the world again and everyone in it

[PeachyPie93]

Never gonna happen, I will never forgive people that chose to make bad decisions willingly. Also I don't need to forgive myself, I'm not like you who lives by making mistakes.

[9in_Serpent]

We all make mistakes you have to understand no body no one is perfect in this crazy world

[PeachyPie93]

I never said anyone was.

[9in_Serpent]

Thats where you can start to forgive then please think it over life is too short and beautiful to waste it on such a toxic destructive emotion and thoughts

[PeachyPie93]

You act like I actually care about sluts to a point it affects my regular life. If it mattered that much to me I wouldn't have any friends who are girls since the majority of women are sluts these days, my friends included.

[9in_Serpent]

Doesn’t necessarily have to be sluts just anyone who has hurt you or betrayed you in the past

[PeachyPie93]

I rather not, having no heart is the only way to survive in a hell such as this.

[9in_Serpent]

I wouldn’t call that much of a survival of nothing is left of you that you can recognize….

[9in_Serpent]

You can live and be happy and be yourself maybe not 100% of ourselves because of lies we were taught when we were young but we can still thrive!

[9in_Serpent]

You just have to let go of the past and those small pieces of your dead self that you stubbornly refuse to let go of and grow into a new person

[PeachyPie93]

Sluts are disgusting creatures of the planet and the men who marry them are even worse.

[Asker]

Why?

[9in_Serpent]

I am sensing this a fake pink account lol

[PeachyPie93]

Because they tend to be completely horrible people, low IQ, lazy and have no personality.

[PeachyPie93]

Men who chose these trash bags over normal good women are trash.

[DrPepper12]

Why assume slutiness is gender specific? IMHO I don't care about her past. I care about our future

[DrPepper12]

I don't know what sluts you've met but my experience is the complete opposite

[PeachyPie93]

@DrPepper12 My dad was a man whore so every slut I ever met I fr wanted to slit their throat. So regardless of past, present or future woman who fuck loads of men, husbands and other trash deserve only pain and never love in my humble opinion.

[PeachyPie93]

And what makes me hate them even more is it seems sluts always win, good woman who don't slut around always are left for a slut who gets the house, the money, and the man.

[DrPepper12]

Ok so it's personal. I get that and yes the whores Do win more often than they should but that's not everyone's experience. I've met a lot of very engaging and intelligent sluts. I think more blame needs to be assigned to the people who actively seek sluts.

[9in_Serpent]

Its not that sluts always win they are just being who they are and doing what makes them happy and men the same as well. Its that religion and conservatism and notions of morality and superiority and assigning value to ones “virginity” is what hobbles and cripples you and sets you up to be jaded and hateful throughout your life when you see how happy and free other people are

[PeachyPie93]

@9in_Serpent No they take what isn't theirs. All people do that, take what doesn't belong to them on the way to their own happiness, not caring how it affects other people. Sluts just annoy me because they are the most noticeable. I have no want or need to slut around with men, because why would I want a bunch of men to fuck me, dump their cum in me and then throw me away? How is that fun or interesting in the slightest. I have enough fun without ever having to come in contact with men.

[9in_Serpent]

Let me ask you this who was it that owned them for them to be stolen? And do you think it is fair to them to be owned like that? Are people property? And did they really own them if they went on their own volition and will?

[PeachyPie93]

@9in_Serpent People aren't property if they were you would be able to control them. I guess sluts just make it harder to keep someone because most don't care if a guy has a wife or girlfriend. But I suppose it actually works out fine if the trash bag takes out the trash for you.

[Nikki1989]

Because most men have no hope of keeping up the pace. Control issues also have a lot to do with it.

[DrPepper12]

Correct

[Ms_Facesitter]

Someone who sleeps around has more risk of STD and just being disloyal, I understand.

[BraxtonsGf]

What if she's sluty just for you then would guys?

[BarryLiverstone]

That’s why I said yes. If she’s my slut

[handsomelad70]

"Sluty?" How do you know she's "sluty?"

[BraxtonsGf]

@handsomelad70 Cause she acts.. Well sluty?

[handsomelad70]

I guess, BraxtonGF.

[BraxtonsGf]

@handsomelad70 I don't know just don't be retarded i guess, then your problem will be solved

[handsomelad70]

You shouldn't try to be "retarded,"BraxtonsGF.

[Pohjolan]

Higher risk of STD:s, higher risk of cheating and loss of reputation. Paternity tests and condoms were not a thing for most of the history of humankind.

[exitseven]

I imagine most guys do not relish the idea of dating somebody who has banged everybody in town.

[ChicoFromThe305]

Cause that's only assuring your marriage's failure, you can't trust a hoe

[Filthy_Immigrant]

for the same reason why noone wants to buy a car that's over 100,000 in mileadge unless you can't afford something better at the moment

[DrPepper12]

Says who? IDGAF how many bodies she has. It's the past and it's irrelevant.

[Awesomesauce2005]

If i found one that wasn't an escort i would date a girl like that.

[Anonymous]

Don't worry. Doctor Pepper will marry them lol.

[Papa21]

To be labeled is not good, but my opinion, it’s a turn on. I wouldn’t hesitate to date someone who’s “known”. If you don’t Anna talk more about it, message me