Women, what dating advice do you have for men? Men, what dating advice do you have for women?

[ThaMaskedMarvel]

[TheRealPepperPotts]

I am aware that I walk through the valley of the shadow of death here...

My view is that a lot of guys don't have a good support network. Guys generally don't have ways to express emotion that is acceptable in society, so they vent in other ways. I think that because of shifts in society and a lack of community, a lot of men have no map for how to function in relationships. The old rules aren't working, the arrangements are so varied and nebulous that I suspect a lot of guys end up throwing their hands up and asking "How am I supposed to be a man here?".

That being said, I think men need a variety of people, both men and women, older and younger, outside of a romantic context, to learn from and be supported by. My advice would be to build that network of both men and women he respects, and who will challenge him in healthy ways to be the man that he is capable of being. Guys don't need to be perfect. They need to be secure and part of a clan, where their qualities and skills are valued, and any nonsense on his part is knocked down by a collection of people that he knows care about him. That's the foundation.

As for dating advice, the thing I would say is to be serious about commitment and investing in marriage to build a life as a team. I'm not saying rush it, but be looking for that woman who wants you and wants to build a legacy with you. Develop a friendship and discuss the things that are real and meaningful. If you want true love, you have to risk vulnerability for it. Just my two cents, I come in peace...

[bobalife]

Simple advice for men & women: be honest, be respectful, and effort counts. Stop generalizing women/men, but get to know each of them for who they are and partnership values. Appreciate the person infront of you who may be a good catch than getting distracted by all the “options” that you may lose a good potential. If someone ain’t treating you right, communicate to problem solve or time to walk away, but that’s just /one/ person and don’t let it ruined your experience. If you’re making mistakes, it’s okay to acknowledge it, grow from it and be a better person/partner.

[JacobJordan]

Learn how to cook, clean and love, encourage and support (emotionally at least) your man. You may not have to do the first 2 but let's be real the first 2 aren't hard.

Take a look in the mirror... you aren't a 10 you have issues you have problems (don't worry everyone does) accept them admit you have them work on them. Addressing those will help you tremendously.

The following is for both men and women. Avoid hook up culture and casual sex if you ever want a healthy long term relationship.

Also for both. Relationships are about taking 2 lives and combining them into 1 life. Learn to give and learn to let go both of you. There is no such thing as 50/50 you both put in whatever you can and do it together. And lastly the most important part of a relationship. It is never you vs your significant other. It is you AND your significant other vs the problem. You learn that and live that and you will find your relationships going far smoother.

[liggang]

What advice could I possibly give to women? It makes no sense to me. Women have endless men chasing them. They don't need advice.

They need to stop fucking men who are pieces of shit and having babies with them.

If you have a baby with a man and he doesn't change diapers, your dating methods were absolute shit.

So my advice to women would be change whatever it is you're doing and date good men who are capable of changing a fucking baby's diaper.

I've seen so many men, men who are the ones all the girls want, having kids with girl after girl after girl. And I know the girls. The girls say that he won't change a diaper. He won't help with the baby. He will only sit on the fucking Xbox and play video games. And then she dumps him and kicks him out.

Women have absolute shit taste in men. Change it. The GOOD men of the world are waiting for women to wake the fuck up.

[Finchie40]

Learn to be honest , stop lying and stop being selfish, wear his shoes the same way you want him wearing yours. Stop listening to your toxic friends advice , your friends will not be by your side for the long haul but your partner will if you treat him with love and respect and stop thinking you are always right , No one is always right.

[jennifer_bloom]

Be her sounding board when she needs somebody to talk to and she will begin to care about you. If you don’t cater to her emotions, you are just an ATM machine to her.

[ManInChains]

Stop treating men like he must be your slave. Stop expecting men to do things for you that you won't do for him. Stop making everything about you. Try making his life easier and not miserable.

[MrExperienced]

Be real and don’t play games. Honesty and communication are everything and if you are on a date put the phone down.

[LadyKitty]

Learn to listen. a lot of the time when a woman is talking about her problems she may not be looking for a solution and just wants you to listen.

[Hellraiser1984]

Women: YOU ARE NOT A PRINCESS! Expect to work for a living. Most guys have no respect for a gold digger. You are very unlikely to marry a rich guy unless you were born rich. Give a chubby guy a chance it can be worked off.

[DrPepper12]

Don't let great be the enemy of good. Take a chance. You're gonna be surprised! Pay real close attention to your gut from the vibes you get about her his family. Be bold and be vulnerable when dating. Show her who you are.

[ManInChains]

Worst advice I've ever heard

[DrPepper12]

@ManInChains or continue hate filled misogyny scaring the shit out of women... Yeah, you must be right and I'm wrong

[IWILLPLEASEYOU]

For men, Always want to be naked kissing 💋 and telling her how sexy you see your clothes off.

[strateguy632]

speaking honest not subtle not games