What should I talk about when I see this girl at her work?

[Anonymous]

i see this girl at her work fairly often and we seem to get along fairly well. i'm just not sure what else i could talk to her about beyond the typical stuff we've already covered.

[OddBeMe]

Toughy. Old saying is don’t hit on people at work especially in hospitality. But I don’t see an issue in giving her your card and saying if you’re free I’d like to buy you a drink sometime.

Just don’t freak out on her if you don’t get a call or text.

[Asker]

feel like oppurtunity is to get to know her at work , not necessary see her outside of it yet

[OddBeMe]

You sad “her work”. Does she work with you or at some coffee joint you go to?

[Asker]

she works at a place that i go to ,

[OddBeMe]

So the old saying still holds. Nothing wrong with friendly chatting I think. The point is she’s paid to be nice to you.

Not that she doesn’t like. That’s what the card is for to make a no-pressure “hit”. lol.

But sure, keep being friendly and find out more about her.

[DrPepper12]

Sports, news, fashion, current events, technology, clients, coworkers, hobbies, books, shows, movies, entertainment, art, music... My man! Shoot your shot!!!

[BarryLiverstone]

Tell her a story. Where a passion of yours and tell her a long story about it. Then judge her reactions to see if she’s engaged or bored

[Asker]

i might not have that much time though , i don't necessary have that much time with her , i sort of see her when i enter the business and get an oppurtunity to speak to her

[BarryLiverstone]

Then say you plan to go out after work and get some food or a drink. Ask if she would like to join ya. Then you have more time

[BarryLiverstone]

That’s a way to not put pressure on her like it’s a date. Instead you are already going out and she can join if she wants to