Should you use tongue when you kiss someone for the first time?

[coachTanthony]

Yes

No

A total of 99 votes were cast: 37 girls and 62 guys. See detailed results

[OlderAndWiser]

I have given and received French kisses on a first date. Sometimes, the sparks are flying and you both know it!

[HaleyWalker]

The other time he doesn't talk about she runs away screaming 💀

[OlderAndWiser]

@HaleyWalker No one knows more than a teenager, but. . . no, I have never had a woman run away screaming from a first date. I know if a woman wants to be kissed on a first date and, if she doesn't, I just suggest a brief hug. If we do kiss, it begins as a simple kiss; if she wants more than a simple kiss, it will become obvious. You are only 16, so you will realize these things when you finally have some experience with the opposite sex.

[OlderAndWiser]

@HaleyWalker The fact that you cam imagine something horrible possibly happening does not mean that it actually happened. You have assumed the worst about someone you do not know. If you have any manners, you should offer an apology.

[HaleyWalker]

What I will offer you is to get thicker skin and learn how to take a joke 💀 your username is supposed to be older and wiser not older and snowflaker ✌🏻😂

[OlderAndWiser]

And the fact that you are 16 does not mean that calling other people names is mandatory. Name calling is also a violation of posting guidelines. Not going to apologize? Not surprised.

[Caroline91]

@HaleyWalker I was going to comment to @OlderAndWiser that it was apparent to me that you were joking…until you made this unbelievably rude comment. Now, as an older woman than you..:and a demonstrably successful one..:I am going to kindly suggest that you reflect on more classy ways you might have responded to an older GENTLEMAN who was doing nothing but trying to be kind to you. And it would not be a bad start to offer a sincere apology bc that’s what a woman of value does when she makes a mistake. Will you rise to the occasion or will you sink in the mire of your own making? The choice is yours….

[Caroline91]

@HaleyWalker
Looks like you maybe sank, babe.

[Caroline91]

@HaleyWalker And I will throw in a free lesson for you that just might save you a whole lot of trouble in life…. do your due diligence (research). When someone like @OlderAndWiser says something to you and quotes rules, policy, or law take the time to find out who he is bc if you had checked his profile page you would have seen that he is a lawyer. At that point, even though you should have apologized, regardless, it would have been the wiser choice than silence bc he knows how and is fully capable of getting your smart teenager mouth bounced off this site. So in the future, even if you don’t choose to do the right thing, you might at least choose to do the smart thing? As far as I’m concerned my choice would be to see you stay and become a positive functioning member of this site. Wish you the best. Peace out.

[AviatorTom]

Depends on how your partner responds when you kiss them with only lips.

[DishLady]

It depends on what feels right in the moment. Start slow and see where life leads you.

[Kit_Kat88]

Yes and no. The kiss can turn to tongue kissing though

[bobby_bush_eater]

I will always first start with a light kiss on the lips or a "peck" on the lips. It's innate old school things in me to be a "gentleman" and take things slower. Especially since I'm looking for a wife instead of immediately sex

[NathanDavis]

one should read the room, the mood, and the moment...

[curiousmandy]

This! It all depends on what you stated

[NathanDavis]

@curiousmandy right (=

[IslaTheWitch]

it depends on how we kiss :D the simple peck doesn't need a tongue involvement :D

[kaozpiper]

This is what happened with a girl I'm seeing now. We were cuddling and then I asked if she wanted to kiss, she said yes, and then went right in with tongue 😂 shocked me and I pulled back because I was NOT expecting that, but didn't mind it so we continued haha

She said it was an accident but I don't know haha

[OfMiceandMen]

No - kisses involving tongue should be applied to situations where things are hot and heavy between the two individuals, a first kiss should be less sexual and more sweet and discrete.

[FearlessFlame]

I think Gag should create a new award for most original content

[electromagnetic]

Tongue, teeth and gums.

[FenixG45]

HAHAHA!!!😅😂🤣

[FenixG45]

Gums?

[MicahRaine]

Nope that's a lot haha

Second time? Maybe

[Anonymous]

I did it, it was a fun experience. But I’m not doing that ever again. It was risky looking back at it & I talked to him about it a lot before doing it, like we planned to have a tongue kiss for like 2 weeks, so it wasn’t really a surprise

[legalboxers]

[mobiusforniner]

Jesus is ashamed of humans. 2000 years later and we’re still screwed up

[DrPepper12]

@mobiusforniner If people actually followed his authentic message it wouldn't be as bad!

[HaleyWalker]

It's also the year 2024 his shit is outdated

[DrPepper12]

@HaleyWalker true. That no pork and no gays and no tatoos stuff is kinda stale at this point!

[soe11]

• I said no.
• On date may be.
• I did on first date.

[Chazmatazz269]

Yes! And your eyes should be wide open too.

[Nikki1989]

I always do.

[FenixG45]

Wanna kiss?

[alicat2358]

Ew fenix. Just ew

[FenixG45]

I'm just paying her a compliment. I don't send D pix.

[elaphe]

I don't care for "French" kissing.

[Booklover_90]

No. French kissing has to be practiced.

[Booklover_90]

Plus, that’s a very intimate way to kiss someone. I wouldn’t want a man to French kiss me for our first kiss. That’d be a little too forward for me.

[exitseven]

maybe just a little bit.

[Wiredone]

No. Not on a first date

[Kathy1111]

no 2 week later yes

[At3mis24]

Oh no, get a little respect!

[mattthefatbat]

Only with the woman you want to marry I believe

[HawkPerception]

I'm not a fan of tongue kissing in general, so nah

[ritxi]

Yes, the kiss is more delicious that way.

[JacobJordan]

Do what feels right

[LaurenM1997]

I don’t like using tongue

[MikeTheBartender]

I always do.

[RingOfFire]

Man I love your style! 🤣🤣🤣

[handsomelad70]

I wouldn't, but that's me.

[Jamie05rhs]

Probably no?

[Angie03]

Whatever your comfortable with.

[FenixG45]

Depends, but probably NOT!

[msc545]

Not the first time.

[mandyfire98]

I do

[ThaMaskedMarvel]

... Naaaahhh.

[Robs22]

I always do

[DaBiggestBird]

Ew, never.

[austinbooth]

No you shouldn’t