Do guys like it when girls beg and chase them to stay?

[Anonymous]

[MrOracle]

Guys generally want to be desired, respected, and appreciated. However, whether they want that from a specific girl depends on how he feels about her. Guys develop feelings (at least the beginning of feelings) very quickly, and they know right away, from either his first significant interaction with her, or by observing her around other people, if he has feelings for her or not. If he does, then she's going to be important to him, and he's going to care about what she does and what she thinks about him. If he does NOT have feelings for her, though, then nothing she does is likely to change that.

You can think of a man's romantic feelings like a seed. If you put a seed into the ground, it has the potential to grow, though it will need water and sunshine along the way. But if there is no seed in the soil, then no amount of sunshine and rain are going to make anything grow - the soil is barren and nothing will grow there, and continuing to water that soil is just a waste of your time and resources.

Here's another thing many girls don't understand about men: we care (especially for real, actual relationships, rather than just for casual sex partners) about FAR more than you looks. Looks are nice, but a girl doesn't have to be a 10/10 in looks or even close to get male romantic interest. But her attitude, behavior, past, morals, values, and life-goals all play a huge role in whether a man finds her attractive - and all of these things are completely within that girl's control, and don't require money or difficult-to-acquire skills or any of that. Far more women are overlooked for their attitude, behavior, or past than for their looks.

I can't guarantee you that you can attract any one specific guy, but, generally, if you focus on the things that the vast majority of men want in women, you will have an abundance of options. If you don't, well, you won't.

Average SMV (Social Market Value), by age and sex

The other major thing - maybe the most valuable thing a woman has in her life - is her YOUTH. Men value youth higher than almost anything else, and youth pays a HUGE part in a woman's "marketplace value" to men. Men, REGARDLESS OF AGE, from 14 to 104, find women from age 20-22 the most physically desirable, and from 18-28 is when a woman has the most value on the market and thus will have not just the most options but also the BEST options she'll ever have. The further away from that range, the lower her "market value" as a relationship partner will be to men and the fewer and lesser her options will be.

You may not like these truths, but that won't change how the world works. You either adapt to the way of the world and maximize your outcomes, or you don't adapt, and you don't maximize your outcomes.

[Nirmroth]

Damn is this a copy pasta or did you really had a brain meltdown just now?

[MrOracle]

@Nirmroth You obviously haven't read a lot of my posts. Also, I type about 90 WPM.

[Nirmroth]

So its not, wish you the best

[TommyMountainFigure]

Well it certainly beats get out you ****** ****** *********

[laly520]

many do for the sake of boosting their ego

but

some r repulsed by it

[Nirmroth]

Who doesn't like an ego boost? But whetever that makes a man stay or not is a different story.

[jahaims]

That is immature

[BarryLiverstone]

Nope