Girls, Do girls like when guys chase them, if they have abandonment issues do they?

[Olympusfitness]

My ex I think liked to be chased. She has abandonment issues from her childhood. I didn't pursue her when we were still talking and hanging out after our breakup and she started dating someone else. I think she likes the chase and the extra effort but do all girls like this?

[iam_ss]

If you didn’t pursue her, that communicated a lack of interest on your part.

[Olympusfitness]

I talked to her everyday and asked her to hang out a lot but neither of us discussed getting back to being official

[iam_ss]

Sounds to me more like this is more about who’s right for her than who’s chasing if she didn’t bring up getting back together