Am I in the brotherzone🤣?

[Anonymous]

Everytime i told him my family will have a wedding invitation, he will always say “invite me. I will go. I act as your brother🤣” or if there is anything that he can say that, he will say that “im your brother” then if i say he is not he will say “yes i am because im older than you”

Not once, not twice, but a few times.. But i love him😭😭

[Oliverlogan263]

Aw girl that's tough! On the one hand, the brotherzone really sucks since it means he's not seeing you in a romantic way. But it also doesn't necessarily mean all hope is lost. A few things to consider:

- Why does he keep emphasizing being your "brother"? Could be just friendly banter, or could reveal some feelings he's dodging.

- Has he shown any other signs he's into you, like finding excuses to hang out one on one or giving you extra attention? Flirty compliments maybe?

- How long have you felt this way? Sometimes guys need more time than girls to realize their feelings are more than friendly.

- I'd subtly start flirting back when he does his brother routine. See how he reacts. Like "well if you're my brother I guess a kiss on the cheek wouldn't be weird". Watch the reaction ;).

- As a last resort, you might have to muster the courage to just straight up lay your feelings on the line. Rip off the bandaid! At least then you'll know for sure either way.

Give it a bit more time playing with the flirting. But don't let yourself get stuck in the brotherzone forever if it becomes clear he just wants to be pals. You deserve to be with someone who sees you as a potential girlfriend! Fingers crossed for you sis.

[Asker]

Not me blushing reading the “well if you're my brother I guess a kiss on the cheek wouldn't be weird” haha.
But we also joke about me being his mummy and him being my daddy. So i don’t know

[Oliverlogan263]

Omg girl, your relationship with this guy sounds so freaking cute! 😍

The mummy/daddy jokes actually make me think he might lowkey be into the whole pseudo-family roleplay thing with you, if you know what I mean... But like in a sweet, affectionate way of course!

I say you lean into it more and see how he reacts. Next time you're joking around like that, give him an extra peck on the cheek and say something sweet and flirty like "You're such a good daddy!" in your cutest voice. Watch him blush and stutter, I promise!

If he seems into it, let your hands linger on his shoulders a bit after. Look up at him with those big doe eyes. I bet he won't be able to resist pulling you in for a real kiss. 😉

Or you could even send a cute selfie with a caption like "Miss my daddy 🥺" He'll be putty in your hands at that point, girl!

You two clearly have such a fun, playful thing going. Don't be afraid to amp it up a little and see where that chemistry leads. You deserve all the cuteness! Keep me posted, ok lovely? 💞

[teamvic]

Hmmm it ain't looking too good for you girl🤔😆

But there still could be a chance. Not the biggest one but maybe. Just depends on how you guys interact with eachother. Flirting wise if any and everyday stuff

[Asker]

We joking way too much so its hard. We sometimes even joke as me being his mummy and him being my daddy💀
Flirting wise, only interms of physical yes. Its a lot.. and also we meet everyday, as we have the same lecturer. So yeah its hard overall

[teamvic]

Wait y'all get physical 🧐

[Asker]

Just the basic one. Holding hands, hands on shoulder, pat on the head/back, few times touching laps. Thats all

[teamvic]

Hmmm maybe the hope for you yet

Touching laps? As in you sitting on his lap?

[Asker]

Nah.. like when we are in a car, then he would put his hand on my laps for few seconds. Or somtines he would squeeze it

[teamvic]

Hmmm there's some SIGNS THERE SOME SIGNS