How can I live with a boyfriend?

[Anonymous]

It’s my dream live with a partner, I don’t want be 27-30 living with mom. I’m older now, I want live my life with a man, plan things with a man.
Do guys just propose to girls to live with him or live together?

I’ve never had any guy propose to be his girlfriend, propose to meet each others families , propose for me live with him. 😓

I feel stupid as I’m happy Planning my life in my head , oh have baby 2025, oh buy house 2025& go house hunting with my partner, but no,

I feel stupid as it’s all a fantasy in my head &guy exists here planing all this with me by text, talking, phone call, nothing 😓

[Oliverlogan263]

Sis, don't feel down on yourself! Living with a guy is common these days and it's totally normal to daydream about that stuff. Here's what I'd say:

Don't wait around for a guy to propose all that - take some initiative yourself. If you meet someone you really like and feel ready for the next step, bring it up after a few months of dating. Something like "I really enjoy spending time with you. I was thinking maybe we could discuss moving in together at some point if our relationship continues to progress."

That at least gets the conversation started without pressuring the guy. And don't wait to meet families or do weekends away together first before broaching the live-in subject. Guys like a girl who knows what she wants.

Also don't be afraid to make subtle hints to guys you're interested in that you're ready for commitment. Like invite them over for home cooked meals instead of just drinks out. Offer to help with cleaning/errands so they see you'd be a good roommate.

Have faith sis - the right guy will appreciate your drive for the next level. Just focus on putting yourself out there and the rest will follow. You got this!

[SixFootSexy]

Having a baby with a boyfriend is a quick and easy way to become a single mom. Get married then start a family.

If you're a wife, you'll attract a husband, if your only value is in the bedroom, you'll be traded out when you become difficult or there are better options available.

[Yannae]

None of us proposed it, we mutually agreed that we'd want that. I already stayed over to do a movie marathon before we were dating so it wasn't too weird for us. Just don't propose it for the sake of living together if he's not the right guy. Love glasses need to be removed before making that step, in my opinion.

[serious]

I am sure there will be a man who shares the same wishes/dreams with you and that one day you may find him.

[Asker]

I found one guy that wanted same things but I didn’t like him back& he lived 15 hours away from me.

[serious]

I understand.

[Asker]

I hav to comit to a guy I don’t like in order hav a boyfriend?

[serious]

@Sugar100

No, you don't have to commit to a guy you don't like. Of course not.

If you have such dreams, standards for your partner then you should wait and explore. Only when you do find your dream partner then you should commit.

[Asker]

but wut if no guy I like loves me back & only a guy I don’t like will want comit to me?

[serious]

"but wut if no guy I like loves me back & only a guy I don’t like will want comit to me?"

Okay so what if a guy wants to commit to you but you don't like him? In that case why will you even think or consider this proposal?

Logically you should already know the answer to this right?

If he proposes and you don't like him at all then simple just decline it. Say no, say it nicely though. Rejection is also a part of life and the guy should understand that. If he doesn't then it is his problem

[LiamS95]

Time to ask yourself if there is a reason that no guy has ever asked you to be his girlfriend etc...

[DrPepper12]

I'm UTTERLY confused about what you're asking

[unknownuser555]

I don't know why you alone..

[Asker]

No guy loves me want call me his girlfriend , have future with me. 😓 I don’t want live forver with mom. I’m almost 27

[unknownuser555]

Keep calm and keep searching.
No one is alone in world forever.. you will find soon