You ever went out with someone who later turned gay?

[red324]

I went out with this girl and like 5 years later noticed she's married to a girl now. We went to Starbucks for coffee and pretty sure I never heard from her again. I think this happened again one other time lmao unbelievable. Go on a date with a girl who can't even decide if she like men or not.

[Oliverlogan263]

Ugh yeah man that's super awkward! I definitely wouldn't have seen that coming. A couple times though, really? Crazy how things work out sometimes.

I mean I get people figuring themselves out and all that. But going on actual dates with someone before coming to that realization... that's pretty whack. At least give a dude some closure after! Not just ghosting someone after meeting up.

I'd be so weirded out if it happened to me again. Like okay, I get not every date ends up long term, but come on dude choose a team already before wasting my time y'know? No hard feelings to find yourself and all, but spare me the confusion next time haha.

At least you can kinda laugh about it now though right? But for real, no more giving my number out until I see a clear preference one way or the other first 😂 can't be trusting these days I guess! Anyway, better luck with the next chick dude, hopefully she knows what she wants.

[hahahmm]

Not that I know of... but I wouldn't care if she was foolish enough to go down that road.

The divorce rate of lesbians is in the 72-75% range and when you understand that those numbers are based on the longest lesbo marriages and they haven't been able to get married for that long, the actual number is trending towards 90%+. This is far higher than the heterosexual marriage divorce rate. Homosexual divorce rate is the lowest. Can you guess what the common denominator for divorce is?

It's also been observed that the lesbo marriages fail when the more feminine spouse's biological clock goes off & she realizes she needs & wants a real man to be her protector instead of a fake guy. Plus it's hard to have a relationship when everybody in it has to have the last word and be free of responsibility.

[CrabCakes11]

lol wtf is this

[Curmudgeon]

@CrabCakes11 it's the hard truth. Continue with your same sex attraction as you desire, but do be aware of the odds.

[CrabCakes11]

@Curmudgeon Calling whatever the fuck that was “the truth” is deranged

[hahahmm]

@CrabCakes11 You can read this article from 2020 about high lesbian divorce rates. There's lots of other info out there if you want to look instead of talking out of your butt. www.spectator.co.uk/.../

[CrabCakes11]

I know the divorce rates are higher, but wtf is this

“ It's also been observed that the lesbo marriages fail when the more feminine spouse's biological clock goes off & she realizes she needs & wants a real man to be her protector instead of a fake guy. Plus it's hard to have a relationship when everybody in it has to have the last word and be free of responsibility.”

[electromagnetic]

I went on a couple of dates with this colleague when I was 18, nothing manifested but we remained friends. When I was 24, I ran into him at a work event and he was with his husband and their 2 year old son. It was kinda nice to see.

[DishLady]

No, but I’d say they didn’t “TURN gay” just bc they went out with a girl… they probably didn’t know they we re gay and then tried the dating a girl thing and realized it didn’t feel correct….

[FunkyMonkee]

No, that's impossible. People don't suddenly TURN gay, they are born that way! They may hide it from others most of their life or just don't quite understand their attraction for the same sex until they realize it's BECAUSE they're gay but, you DON'T just suddenly BECOME gay.

[b_lova]

No but I did try to date a girl I knew was a lesbian. I could tell she was interested in me. As we had been friends for about a year. We were kids, 17, and almost had sex but she stopped me when I tried to put it in.

[ArrowheadSW]

I dated a lady when I was 23/24, for over a year. I found out about 15 years later that she had married a woman and adopted a child. I was very surprised!!

[NathanDavis]

no... she didn't turn gay

but she was bisexual already

[LiamJHayden]

No, but I have a friend who was engaged to two different guys before she realized she preferred girls.

[red324]

It's definitely more fun hanging out with your own sex, but I'm not attracted to them lol

[CrabCakes11]

No, but I’d probably find it pretty humorous. All the women I’ve dated have been gay though

[DrPepper12]

I pursued in HS a girl who was later lesbian. My classmates, and some students I had, surprised me but I've been told my gaydar doesn't exist.

[LaurenM1997]

I did in high school now he’s engaged to the man he loves but it’s fine we are best friends

[Anonymous]

No, but my middle school crush is transgender now. Male to female.

[Anonymous]

Yeah, Twice! Had it continued it might have made me wonder if I was causing it.😆

[RedInnocent69]

Like, I turned them gay? No.

[red324]

No, I just mean you noticed they turned gay later on. Like say 3 years later

[RedInnocent69]

No. I’ve definitely gone out with people I suspected who came out to me later on, not romantically though.

[AngryCarl]

Some girls are bi, so there's that.

[pethouse]

My neighbors dad ended up being gay