Have you ever been broken up with because your partner realized they were gay?

[JustinTheGreat]

My friends girlfriend of 6 years just broke up with him because she realized she’s a lesbian. I mean there were other reasons too but that was the main reason.

And most of us aren’t surprised lol she gives major lesbian vibes. And she's also said “im gay, [my friend] is the only man im attracted to”

so the warnings were definitely there

Yes this has happened to me

No this hasn’t happened to me

[Anonymous]

My best friend's last two exes (one being her now ex-husband) turned out to be gay. Her ex husband was in some like dystopian level denial, but the boyfriend before him had a friend group, which she hung around with too, where literally everyone in the group was gay. Everyone. Sure you can be the one straight person, I mean there are plenty of friend groups that have that one gay friend, but I knew he was gay the day I first met him and she originally tried to hook me up with him. I was like, are you serious, this guy? THIS guy?!? I flat out rejected him and she went on to date him and well, I was 100% right.

[dustybiker2]

No. One of my turn ons is that silent burning look a man gives you when you've impressed them and they are really getting attracted to you. Gay men can't fake that look of desire. Bi men could. Especially before the spark wears off, because of broken trust or what have you. But, no. Never.

[msc545]

This is not happened to me but it has happened to many of my male friends. I think it is statistically more likely to happen to men as opposed to women, but I don't know that for sure. It would be very interesting to study this. I think women in general are more fluid sexually than men are. No puns intended.

[msc545]

Thanks for MHL

[msc545]

oops mho

[DrPepper12]

I've dated a girl in my teens who later came out. I had several guy friends come out as gay / bi. I've had students come out to me as gay. I've known husbands to come out as gay / bi after years or decades of marriage.

[HawkPerception]

My ex that I was with for 3 years broke up with me then started dating a girl that transitioned into a guy. It was a pretty big slap in the face for me, but somehow I'm happier with that than her being with a guy (because she'd consider the guy better than me). At least she's dating a biological girl which makes me feel I'm not compared in that way 😂

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Nah, I was the one that realized I wasn’t straight. He was a good guy, I couldn’t have asked for a better partner, but I couldn’t love him the way he wanted

[strateguy632]

Not like they realized noticed but more like response.

i probly caused 2 or 3 gals to go to the other team. Then she dumped me for her.

[petitedollbabee]

Hasn’t happened to me but I had a friend who had her boyfriend leave her because he realised he’s gay.

[NathanDavis]

nope...

my ex was bisexual, but everyone knew that in advance... lol

[WhitneySnow]

Actually yes. He was just a crush though we were really too young to be officially dating.

[Radiate143]

No, but I suspect my ex is probably struggling with his sexuality.

[DishLady]

Nope.

[PetiteMisSmooth546]

Got dumped once because he thought I was a lesbian

[The_Confusion]

So who is gay?

[IslaTheWitch]

nope

[Anonymous]

I don’t have a gay partner