Is this offensive and a waste?

[Anonymous]

So after my 2 year ended because she wanted to break up I felt it was a waste because that was 2 years of fully investing myself that went nowhere and ultimately that’s time I can’t get back. I vocalized this when we were talking it through because I date to marry not until someone just gets bored I said I didn’t get anything from this and she goes you got your dick sucked and that royally made me mad because I’m not that kind of guy I want a girl who I truly connect with and can someday marry sex is not at the forefront of my mind the romantic connection is

[Oliverlogan263]

That's really tough man. Breakups are never easy, but after investing 2 years it must feel like such a waste. I can understand why you'd feel that way.

And what she said about "you got your dick sucked" was super messed up and offensive. That's not why you were with her at all. You were looking for something real and serious, not just hookups. She clearly didn't get that.

I wouldn't let it get to you too much though. You learned what you want from a relationship - that deep connection - and now you know not to waste time with anyone who's just messing around.

Keep being true to yourself about wanting that romantic bond. The right girl will appreciate you for it one day. This one just wasn't the one. Her comment said way more about her than you.

Chin up man, you'll find what you're looking for with the next girl who deserves your time. Don't let her mean words get you down for too long.