How do guys like to be loved?

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DishLady · Accepted Answer

Depends on the guy, but generally…

Emotionally: Affirmation, reciprocity, kindness, respect, loyalty, active listening and patience.

Physically: … (skipping ahead a bit … just watch the guy’s eyes and facial expression and pay attention to what he likes …)

Some guys say they want one thing but actually want another… so active listening becomes v important.

MadinaHasABensheer · Accepted Answer

Physical touch: hug me, hold me, kiss me, freaking throw me around (passionately, gently) for all I care I love every bit of it.

MisterWack · Accepted Answer

Kisses, cuddles, being able to express one’s feelings & emotions and feel heard, appreciation even for the little things, little gestures of love, know boundaries & respect boundaries, and be comfortable to show their soft sensitive side a bit, sex.

Lynx122 · Accepted Answer

Basically to me it's important that the woman understands me as a person and accepts me the way I am. She shows that she cares about me, she's cute and loving and respectful and she gives me enough space to rest and relax. That's basically it.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

Frequently, eagerly, and demonstratively!

HawkPerception · Answer

Every individual is different. We all have different love languages and things that we value.

I myself love quality time, physical touch, and words of affirmation. I do not want my partner getting me gifts. The main gifts she can give me are those 3 I mentioned. And if she wants to do an act of service, cooking, cleaning, and giving head are more than enough.

skunk3n · Answer

Loved during dating? I mean, you sure this question should be in 'Dating'-section, and not in 'Relationship'-section?

Anyway, I love when a girls seeks attention (which they like to do), especially from who they love. So I as a man can acknowledge that and give her what she wants or looking for.

dragoblack · Answer

Do you mean sexual? Or in actions of affection?
Everyone's love languages are different.
Mine personality, is just treating me as a person, showing appreciation for what i do, joining me/taking interest in my hobbies, and cuddling with me as we have deep conversations about random things.
I have simple love languages that show affection mentally & physically, without the need for it to be sexual... sadly that's hard for many women to understand...

Unit1 · Answer

You should see how anime girls are being lovey-dovey lovestruck and intensively affectionate towards their boys. There's a reason anime is quite popular.

ProbablyClueless · Answer

It's an individual thing. Look up something called "love languages." That said, a lot of men will associate being loved with be respected. So if you want to show love to a man; respect him.

shortster · Answer

Physical touch is my primary love language. So give me a hug and I'm good. I imagine that goes for the other love languages too. Quality time/hangout, Words of Affirmation/compliments, Acts of Service/fix a meal, and Gift Giving/a lightsaber.

LiamJHayden · Answer

I love to be loved by her showing genuine interest in me as a person.

gorydetails · Answer

This way

Anonymous · Answer

Genuinely. If you can't do it Genuinely don't even bother us.👍

KrakenAttackin · Answer

I give you full credit for asking this question. Most women don't consider what a man wants/needs at all. Well done.

Anonymous · Answer

Men these days just want to be respected and appreciated by their woman, something we don't get much anymore.

Agape93 · Answer

With appreciation and affection

Jay0102 · Answer

Yes we do. To have a good girl loving you feels amazing

hahahmm · Answer

Loyalty & respect.

Anonymous · Answer

Focus on us that's for sure. No get hard to get games. That only works for movies and TV shows.

serious · Answer

Highly subjective.

CrabCakes11 · Answer

It depends on the guy

Emmytexrex · Answer

We just need respect it's just that simple

sirderpsalot123 · Answer

Back scratches and food

Anonymous · Answer

I don't Love is but a heart disease

boggboss · Answer

Depends on the guy

Mettbltt · Answer

faithfully

MrDaveAPSI · Answer

Sex!

RedInnocent69 · Answer

Mostly sex.

OddBeMe · Answer

Naked.

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