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My boyfriend is flirty with other women and he doesn’t realize that?

Please do not just tell me to dump him guys.. Please try to give constructive advices 🙏🏻

My boyfriend is 31 and is an absolutely amazing guy. Very honest, caring, the most thoughtful person ever. He represented himself as someone very monogamous and traditional guy. So I was really happy to find him because I am exactly the same. BUT the problem is, he doesn’t act what he represents in that way? When we were dating first month, he met with one of my female friends and we made a chat group with me, my boyfriend, her and one of his guy friends. And my boyfriend sent erotic-funny stickers to the group. Where there is my female friend HE JUST MET. I was shocked… Like thats my female friend you just met with her, you are 31 year old guy, I guess you should know you need to be respectful when you first meet someone especially from your partners circle. When I said this to him he said “Oh I didn’t think she is someone who would misunderstand that” like dude when did you decide that you saw her ONCE? And he was like ok that will not happen again.

Then he said he has a female friend that he met few months ago before we started to date, at our company, by the way we work in airlines. He met her during their flight and he flies to very short destinations. They speak few words and then she added him on instagram after flight. by the way bare in mind, our work environment is not like an office. If you add everyone you had a flight with you should have 100.000 people in your account. So that wasn’t natural for the start. He showed me the conversation they had that time. She asked him about a vacation place where he is from. Then he answered, she said thank you. And he started to do jokes and kept the conversation going. Like… why? Than they started to talk about F1 and became friends. There was nothing emotional, or deep talks etc it was all about F1. But the way they started and the way my boyfriend talks bothered me a lot. Why does he do that?

My boyfriend is flirty with other women and he doesn’t realize that?
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