My boyfriend flirts with other women every time we go out - why?

[marlo]

My boyfriend will flirt with the bartender, other women to the point where he once told the bartender he'd like to see her dance in pink panties. He says he does not understand why it bothers me, he says he is only playing or just buzzed and obviously I'm with him. I have told him to stop but he just wont. He goes out once a week during the week with his friend and I'm stressed the whole time. Is he a player, he says he is not but his behavior is like he is trying to pick up right in front of me.

[satish]

He has no respect for you. That's the bottom line that I see.

If I do something that the girl I LOVE objects to, especially if it is not a matter of life and death, I will not argue and will immediately stop doing it. Her objection is good enough of a reason.

If a stranger objects to what I am doing, on the other hand, I will most definitely tell him or her to go f**k themselves (in a nice way, if the occasion calls it).

[SexyFreak]

he's insecure. You have a couple of choices, #1. make sexual comments about guys in front of him, #2 act like it doesn't bother you when he makes comments or #3 dump him...mostly likely #1 or #2 will work and he will stop. Good Luck!