Does a muscular guy would be attracted to a chubby girl like me? Fit guys and everyone tell me you opinion please?

[Anonymous]

I'm 23 and overweight because of anxiety and depression. I dated just one time in my life, my ex was really skinny and made me insecure telling I was heavy during intimacy, had my first time with him tho, just a few times to be honest.

I broke up with him 2 years ago and since then I haven't kissed anyone lol But I'm getting to know some guys on dating apps and I met a guy online, it's recent and we are just talking, he said something about going out, but I'm trying to get to know him better.

Sooo let's go to the question: he is really fit, has nice abs and huge arms. Me on the other hand have really huge boobs and you know they are saggy, has a big stomach and unfortunately I don't have really huge glutes. I've never gotten out with someone like him, he is not perfect, but you know I'm fat and he is fit. On the app I posted a photo showing my body, but I'm insecure meeting him in person.

[Oliverlogan263]

Aww don't worry about it so much sis! Everybody likes different things, y'know? Just because a guy works out doesn't automatically mean he's only into super fit girls. Fit dudes can be into curves too!

As long as you carry yourself with confidence, that'll go way further than any weight worries. And from the sounds of it, this guy is into you already so I doubt your body is an issue. Definitely don't feel bad meeting him - go have fun!

The right person will think you're gorgeous no matter what. This guy taking you out is a good sign. And who knows, being with someone so fit could even inspire you health-wise in your own way. But don't change yourself expecting his approval either.

Just be your awesome self. A real one won't judge over some extra pounds. And if he's a jerk about it, fuck that noise - you'll find someone better who loves your bod just the way it is! Chin up girl, you've got this!

[Anonymous]

I don't think you have got any business expecting a muscular guy to want and like you when you don't want a guy that is not muscular. Sounds like typical under 40s woman to me. What about skinny guys feeling insecure. People reap what they sow.

[Asker]

What?
I don't have any type, I'm just an introvert and I dated just once, my ex was skinny but he made me feel like sh1t and I've never said anything about his body, I liked him for who he was.
I don't care about body types. How did you get this idea?

[Opinion Owner]

Oh i don't know,, just by reading your question.

[Asker]

Maybe I expressed myself in a bad way, but I'm not that kind of person. I'm just insecure in case we meet in person that's why I'm asking.

[DishLady]

Actually you’d be VERY surprised who the “chubby chasers” are. (No offense to anyone… that’s what it was called back when I was a kid. If there’s a PC term for 2024, apologies and send me the correction.)


So… true story… my ex MIL was a very hot, fit little bombshell of a woman when she married my ex FIL. He got her pregnant a few times … because he just liked seeing her chubby, but he never said anything. He’s a very fit ex Marine and she would always get depressed that she was chubby and try every diet… and for every diet she started he brought home a fresh batch of doughnuts or some other irresistible carb and would stick it under her nose…. WHY? Bc he loved how she looked a little chubby. 55 years later he’s happily married to her and she’s still a his slightly chubby little bride. 🤷🏻‍♀️


Guys aren’t all looking for the same thing, just like girls aren’t all looking for the same thing.

[Hannajenky]

There’s all kinds of diverse people out there. Look hard enough and work on yourself and you can find your dream guy lol

[Summeroflove]

Those men have options. They tend to go for the best they can find… and a woman who treats him well will always win a good genuine man in the end.

[SotiCoto]

Why would you deliberately seek out the sort of guys who would treat you most harshly? Guys don't end up looking like meat-clouds unless they're obsessed gymcel types.

[Asker]

Do you think fit guys behave this way?
I'm not deliberately seeking for any type of guy. He was the one who message me first. To be honest I don't talk to guys like him because I know I probably don't have any chance.

[alice55]

It's possible, I've seen fit guys dating skinny curvy and chubby girls.

[christheman1]

A girl can be attractive for a whole host of reasons

[Billlewis]

Oh my goodness, yes!🤗

[Asker]

What do you think of a girl with this kind of body?

[Billlewis]

Please don't think of yourself as 'overweight' -- instead, refer to yourself as well fed. A woman's sexy fat butt, is what I want no matter what, and regardless of what comes to pass, I'm grateful to just kiss her ass😘

[Asker]

But mine is not that big, my breasts and bigger :/

[KostasKouvalis]

I've seen it before.

[In_Trance]

Not a good match

[Asker]

Do you think maybe we could go out if he invite me?

[In_Trance]

Possibly. Also a possibility he would rail you. But beyond that, it won't work out

[Asker]

I would never go to bed with someone who is not my boyfriend, just if I want to get railed which is not the case.

[In_Trance]

Move on then