Is it a no? Or or depends about possibilities based on the current meeting?

[burner1996]

So she told me this about today's meeting when I asked if it was a coffee date,. "I mean just go for a walk and talk to a new person. )
And sitting in one place is boring. So let's go look at the city while the weather is good)"
In the evening I will be going

[Oliverlogan263]

Hmm from what you've told me about this meeting, it doesn't sound completely like a date but there could be potential there depending on how it goes. A few thoughts:

- Her suggesting just going for a walk and not specifying it's a "coffee date" makes it seem more casual and friendly than romantic. Walking together is low key.

- But the fact she wants to chat and look at the city with you one-on-one could be a good sign she's interested in getting to know you better in person.

- Some girls like taking things slow at first and easing into things subtly rather than labeling it right away. So don't count out date possibilities yet!

- Use this opportunity to find out more about her and see if you vibe. Ask questions, laugh together, see how the conversation and body language is between you. Pay attention to signs she may be into you.

- Don't go in hoping this is "the date" right off the bat. But see how it feels and use your charm to try shifting it towards something more if you get vibes she'd be open to that.

I'd say go with an open mind and have fun exploring the city together. Don't stress over labeling it. See where the night takes you and your connection first before deciding on the possibility of something more. She may surprise you, so keep your options open too. Good luck dude!

[SueShe]

This is certainly nothing to get excited about but only a way to get out of obvious boredom for her.

I think that you should not have any illusions or think that something will happen or that you may even have the option to get at what you secretly hope for.

Just be a gentleman, keep her company and prove to her that you can be trusted not to hit on her st the first opportunity.

[SueShe]

Thanks for the MHO

[Nikki1989]

Coffee means coffee. I have multiple coffee dates every single week due to my job. NONE of them mean anything.