Are you done looking for the love of your life?

[coachTanthony]

Hell yes

Hell No

[TheRealPepperPotts]

I actually don't believe in soul mates, and here's why: It places whoever wins that title for us on a pedestal. It creates these crazy expectations that are impossible for any human to live up to. And, when conflict arises as it will, it can have the effect of setting us wondering if we really did find The One, or if they are still out there...

In my view, The One is the person we marry. I am not talking about settling, I am talking about knowing we don't want to go through the rest of our lives without this flawed, amazing, goofy, genuine, dedicated and real human. We decide that no matter what life throws at us, we are in it together for the long haul.

I think we are compatible with any number of people, really. It's a matter of logistics. There are 8 billion people on the planet. What are the odds of us finding only one perfect soul mate? And yet 90% of people who marry are utterly convinced they have found their soul mate...

Life is the great challenge, and we hope to find someone who will have our back when we get pinned down, flaws and all. Just my two cents... :D

[coachTanthony]

So is that a yes or no? lol

[TheRealPepperPotts]

@coachTanthony Good point. :D I found who I would have considered the love of my life. He died. I am deliberating on moving forward now, since it has been several years. So, to answer your question, I guess I'm not done... :)

[coachTanthony]

Sorry to hear that thanks for the comments!

[TheRealPepperPotts]

@Coach 'Course. :D Fun question!

[FenixG45]

@coachTanthony. @TheRealPepperPotts. This is the Best Answer and deserves an MHG!

[TheRealPepperPotts]

@FenixG45 Wow, thanks for the compliment! @coachTanthony Thank you for the MHO! :D

[EmmaMary]

@coachTanthony

Thankfully Yes... I met "The One" almost twelve years ago, and now the rest is still history in the making.

[EmmaMary]

Gosh... Thank you so much @coachTanthony for the MHO.

[Sparking4th]

Listen, I understand and respect that your handsome husband is taken. But that doesn't mean that I can't admit that he is a fine looking man, with an O LA LA sized banana in his boxers. Mine is under 6 inches, and I bet I would be impressed and amazed to see his in a gym locker room for example. Some guys like him just born with a big one, unlike me. Both of you are lucky, and I wish you both a happy and healthy marriage for many more decades. God bless you both.

[sawno]

Unfortunately not, I had the love of my life but it wasn't meant to be. If she comes back at some point I already found the love of my life and would embrace her and rebuild what we had. But if she doesn't come back I hope she's not the love of my life because that would be sad, i'd rather have the lasting relationship be the love of my life.

[OlderAndWiser]

Yes because, as you know, I married her on April 27.

[OlderAndWiser]

Thanks, dude!

[HawkPerception]

Life's a roller coaster of emotions. Sometimes I wanna throw in the towel and sometimes I think I'm on top of the world. Can't tell you how many times I've wanted to be done looking for love in my life, but at the end of the day I believe finding true love will be one aspect of the true happiness I find in life.

[dustybiker2]

So long as he doesn't change his mind or other. Life is not fixed and safe. All sorts of the unexpected happens.

[VoyeurGuy]

I would not say done, but cynical, yes. As a 42 year old man, the options are limited. Divorced with a string of kids, no kids but a history that can be made into a Netflix drama. Or just plain of their rocker!
And everyone, including myself, has issues. Starting to think being alone, but secure, both mentally and emotionally, might be the best way.

[rienna888]

Yes, I give up. Recently I fell in love with this guy and he just disappeared, he was the one who stalked me and became obsessed and now he just gave up. So I give up, i'll just try to be healthy and stay young looking

[paledreams]

Hell yes, retired months ago at 30 from dating months ago, quite keenly and ongoing merrily single and focuses instead on work, life, enjoyment, interests, family and friends, and my time aka downtime :) 😊👌🏻🛍️🛒

[PBandJ_Nerd]

No. I haven't even got to try yet so why should I say yes? It'd be very sad if I did and probably not a good sign.

[andreasderjuengere]

I only have been looking for a reliable and agreeable partner.

Kind of found one.

As for romantic schmaltzy concepts: forget that crap, and be realistic :D

[sage2021]

I found the love of my life and he passed away suddenly last year.

[FenixG45]

My condolences. I know what that's like.

[Sugar100]

I just wanted a first boyfriend that meets family but since it never happened I guess the one guy that does it will be the love of my life

[pervertedjester]

Yes because I found her and lost her already. It's uninteresting to me to find someone else who would even come close to rivaling her memory.

[idonotlikeyou]

For now, I don't consider men as a human species, so I'm giving up on any relationships.

[CindyRuns]

Definitely... I found him and married him !!!

[Bricealan]

I meet and talk to potential partners almost daily, or at least it seems that way.

[Unit1]

50/50 coach.

No point in giving up. I love women. But i also don't want to do too much trying to find love. 🫤

[McLlovin]

When i reach 40 then ill hang it up and stop looking😂 i still got time lol

[ariadneR]

Yes. Because as soon as I stopped, that's when he appeared.

[PatKirby]

Yep, done with that. These daze the juice is not worth the squeeze.

[Darkchild25]

Yup. Every woman I like doesn't like me, and those that like me I'm not into them🤷🏾‍♂️

[Dnice1]

Hoping he'll find me because I sure haven't find him yet

[FenixG45]

I hope you find him too!

[moviedude714]

Yeah but unfortunately the desire will never go away

[Wiredone]

Yes im done looking. I found her over 30 years ago

[AviatorTom]

Found her 😃👍

[DishLady]

Looking… yeah. Finding… no.

[Crazzyyworld]

Done thinking of monsters but dating in progress

[FearlessFlame]

[NathanDavis]

I never really needed to look for it... I usually just stumble upon some great people...

[Lliam]

Yes because I found her. We've been happily married now for almost 28 years.

[Nikki1989]

I met him 11 years ago.

[Ms_Facesitter]

Until I see that ring!

[LiamJHayden]

At this point I'd be content to find a lady who is not high maintenance and who can put up with me.

[exitseven]

Yes, we got married a long time ago.

[Finchie40]

Not done , but in no rush

[FenixG45]

I would have picked a third option. I'm looking for a compatible, complementary woman to my neurodivergence!
That's no easy task.

[PeachyPie93]

Yeah that ship has sailed.

[GeminiDiamond]

Hell yes, I found them.

[_SilentWolf_]

No I haven't found the love of my life yet

[Jason2469]

I found them and they were just awful. No thanks. Love is fake and gay

[Booklover_90]

Ehh. I’m keeping hope alive. 😊

[TonyMetal___86]

I think so yes, unless god put the one in my way!

[legalboxers]

I dont know anymore to be honest

[Anonymous]

Yes, I'm don't trying, anymore

[Simslover92]

Yes because I've found him.

[Katebfun]

Yes.

[Anonymous]

Not on this site. lol

[msc545]

In the US? Hell yes.

[Emmytexrex]

Lol yh I am

[Emmytexrex]

I am looking for a lady that will say look no more here I am lol 😄

[Enginn]

No. Still looking

[Peridot25]

I’ve given up hope

[Luopio27]

Yes I gave up!

[Dongie]

Fuck it.

[Dongie]

NO..