What is your dating value when a women breaks up with you?

[Anonymous]

I have always heard that your dating value is determined by how women are interested in you but what about the opposite

[jennifer_bloom]

Women value different things. I put a high value on a man’s ability to hold a coherent conversation but I know women who are very attractive that do not care at all if the man is a foreigner with a hefty language barrier that limits their dialogue skills. As much as we should seek self improvement; the best strategy is to find somebody who does not mind your failures and values your successes.

One example is that some men won’t even glance at a woman unless she has a high paying job while other men might prefer a woman without a job cause it means she can devote more energy to house work and child care.

Ladies should look for a man who likes their good qualities and is able to overlook their bad ones. Some men prefer lighter skin and some men prefer darker. Some men prefer career women and some men prefer home bound wives who do not work for a living.

[Nikki1989]

You should be mature enough to deal with it and move on. Your dating value if there is such a thing doesn't change one bit.

[Asker]

Well it wasn’t a normal breakup at all she was physically abusive in the relationship towards me and my dog.