What is the point in dating women long-term?

Question

Women always seem to get so clingy. Like they want to control your life. I always feel like I'm back living with my mom and she wants to interfere with everything I do like she knows best or something.

Our culture seems to teach women that they are always right about everything, and they just take it to heart. Or maybe they just feel superior because they can give birth. Anyway, I don't see the point. Maybe someone can enlighten me.

jennifer_bloom · Accepted Answer

Men are created to dominate the outside world and woman are created to organize and maintain the order and quality of the home. Some woman get too aggressive and overstep the limits of their duty by being rude and hostile, but that does not mean women serve no functional purpose anymore. It just means some woman abuse their function by adding unjustifiable and corrupt action to their native role. Just like many men abuse their function by failing to provide for the family and by abusing their power position in the marriage through cruel and hostile treatment towards the people who depend on them.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Or maybe they think you’re acting like a child so they need to mother you. I find it hard to believe that a woman would feel the need to ”mother” a MAN who actually acts like a man and responsible adult.

Lynx122 · Accepted Answer

It's definitely difficult today. I like talking to women as friends but relationships are a lot of work and I'm investing in myself building up my life. Living life as a guy is very predictable and stable and you can keep going in a positive direction in general. There's some difficulties and setbacks but overall it'll keep going up. But with a woman involved it can be a lot more complicated even if she means well and cares about me.

CriticalCatDad123 · Accepted Answer

Personally I don't see a point in long term relationships with women. They always tend to want to control every aspect of the relationship. I guess if you're the type of guy who just doesn't care about that kind of thing than I say those types should have long term relationships. I personally prefer not to be controlled by a woman. I like living my life on my own terms instead of on someone else's.

Simslover92 · Answer

You're picking the wrong women. There are some submissive women out there willing for you to lead them. I know it's few and far, but they are out there. I for one, do not want to control the relationship with my boyfriend and want him to always lead me. I also don't want to smother him and want to give him his space. I'm an introvert so that's easy for me to do. You just have to find better women.

IslaTheWitch · Answer

It's your life and your decision... if you don't want to date them, then don't...

If I don't want my man to control me I simply tell him what my boundaries are :D but I set it long before we even start to think about dating

JacobJordan · Answer

The point to dating a woman long term is children. If you don't want kids there is absolutely no reason to be with a woman. You can just find someone to have casual sex with or pay for it. You can hire a maid to clean your house and you can hire a cook or order take out. Had I not wanted kids I would not have gotten with my wife. She knows that. It isn't an insult to her as she likewise wanted kids and had the same view. Zero point in being with a man unless you want kids.

Nikki1989 · Answer

Sounds like you belong with your mom.

SeriouslyNotSerious · Answer

Don't worry. We don't wanna date someone who hates women. Just look for a boyfriend and don't date girls anymore. Simple. 🥱

Anonymous · Answer

There isn't much anymore. This is why both genders prefer f*** buddies anymore. Men get the freedom they want while still getting sex. Women get sex and the temporary illusion of affection. Both people win, so long as no one gets too attached.

Apple1996 · Answer

The point is to have love and have companionship. And you are dumber than fuck if you don't realize how valuable it is that a woman can bring life into the world

GOLDFISH_smile · Answer

I don't know. What do you want out of a relationship? Or do you want a relationship at all? For some people there is no point in dating long-term. For others there is a good point in it.

KittygosMeoWW · Answer

If you feel that way why not date a man long term instead

b_lova · Answer

Sounds like you are attracted to the wrong type of woman.

laly520 · Answer

u r with wrong women + u need to mature up more

SotiCoto · Answer

Presumably genetic perpetuation.  But honestly you can decide your own reasons to date or not date...

DextroShade · Answer

This is why men need to have frame and women need to submit.

handsomelad70 · Answer

To get to know them in case you want to wed them down the line.

JayBones2469 · Answer

The only point is you are a masochist and you want to die old and poor

msc545 · Answer

You just kind of hope they will get better. Most of them actually get worse.

midnightmoon05 · Answer

For better health and happiness.

sheikalana · Answer

To have a family.

lorenzomichael · Answer

You can borrow money from her. Oh, and blowjobs.

Peridot25 · Answer

What the hell kind of women are you dating? 🤨

BarryLiverstone · Answer

The point is to provide for her and lead her

boobliker · Answer

I don't see any

jahaims · Answer

Pick better partners

What is the point in dating women long-term?

Most Helpful Opinions

What Girls & Guys Said

What’s the point of dating when women don’t take commitment seriously anymore? Women break up and divorce for trivial reasons and for greener pasteur?

What is the point in dating women long-term?

Most Helpful Opinions

What Girls & Guys Said

What’s the point of dating when women don’t take commitment seriously anymore? Women break up and divorce for trivial reasons and for greener pasteur?

We're glad to see you liked this post.