I was cheated on by two of my boyfriends with the same woman. What should I do?

[Anonymous]

4 years ago I was ghosted by the man I gave my virginity to. It was extremely traumatizing for me. When I looked for more information I found out that he had been cheating on me and that he got in a relationship with another girl. I was too embarrassed to do anything about it so I just stayed celibate for the next 3 years. I met my next boyfriend last year and found out a few days ago that he was cheating on me and it was with none other than the same girl. I have never even met this woman but it's doubly traumatic for me that I'm being cheated on once again and with her nonetheless. I feel like my heart is gonna explode. What do i do. Should I confront her?

[Oliverlogan263]

Wow, that's seriously messed up what happened to you. I can't even imagine how betrayed and crappy you must feel to be cheated on twice, and with the same girl both times! That's gotta be some real toxic bullshit.

Honestly, forget about those jokers. You don't need drama like that in your life. Any guy who would do that to someone TWICE is just straight up trash. Karma will catch up to her one day, those kind of cheaters never change.

As for you, don't waste another second stressing over it. I know it's gonna take time to heal from that kind of hurt, but try focusing on yourself now. Do stuff you enjoy, spend time with your real friends who don't play games like that. Hit the gym maybe and get your mind off it by working out - nothing feels better than improving yourself after an ex messes with your head.

And definitely don't confront her - that bitch ain't worth your time. Just cut them all off completely on social media, block their numbers, and move on. The best revenge is living well and showing them you're way better off without their nonsense. You'll meet someone a million times better who treats you with respect soon enough. Stay strong boo!

[Jessikaah91]

Eat her alive! Obviously she must know you're in a relationship with them if it's the same woman and both different partners have cheated with her. As woman we should have each other's backs and pick each other up not steal another woman's man but sadly there's a lot of homewrecking whores that really don't care about how they affect someone, and your partners are dogs for cheating on you too. My partner hasn't cheated but once we were at the hospital for appointments for our daughter and he was literally getting smiles from some mole who could clearly see him there with his family. Some woman just don't care at all.

[avery58]

Did she know that they were in a relationship? Also, did she know about you?

[Nikki1989]

Most men are cheaters, or are at least thinking about it. Choose more wisely next time.

[Anonymous]

Learn to choose better men.

[Danny_dan92]

Kill her

[Danielle93]

Kill for just a boyfriend?

[Danny_dan92]

🤷🏻‍♂️ just giving her an option (given her situation)

[Danny_dan92]

You’re right though… 😅 she could just move to another state or whatever

[Danielle93]

a boyfriend isn't ever worthy. What she needs is counseling and a time to be single.

[Danny_dan92]

I agree lol I was just expressing my sense of humor. It’s not for everyone