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So we ended our conversation in a pretty cordial phone call but there were a few things that I took to heart from the last conversation.
Now just to set things up, I’m more attracted to white/Lightskin women than others. It doesn’t mean I don’t like other races I’m just attracted to them more. My friend (black girl) views this as disgusting. But we had different core beliefs and she stated out our beliefs were different so I sort of understood where she’s coming from. I couldn’t help but notice that she thinks I can date any white girl and view her as morally good based on her looks because she’s white which kind of annoyed me a tiny bit considering the fact many white girls I see on social platforms have bad morals and I could easily tell they are bad. I’m not the one that would just date them because they look fine. Their personality has to be attractive as well. I truly believe that.
Another thing that stuck out to me is the fact that she would bash me publicly if she sees me marry someone out of my race whilst taking over the church which is quite understandable considering the fact the church is a predominantly African one. But then my mind would be set back to videos my dad (founder of the church) would show me of white people attending it so it’s almost like this conflict in my head.
I thought I would just express these thoughts so I don’t bottle it all up but I also want to see your opinions to see what you think.
Now just to set things up, I’m more attracted to white/Lightskin women than others. It doesn’t mean I don’t like other races I’m just attracted to them more. My friend (black girl) views this as disgusting. But we had different core beliefs and she stated out our beliefs were different so I sort of understood where she’s coming from. I couldn’t help but notice that she thinks I can date any white girl and view her as morally good based on her looks because she’s white which kind of annoyed me a tiny bit considering the fact many white girls I see on social platforms have bad morals and I could easily tell they are bad. I’m not the one that would just date them because they look fine. Their personality has to be attractive as well. I truly believe that.
Another thing that stuck out to me is the fact that she would bash me publicly if she sees me marry someone out of my race whilst taking over the church which is quite understandable considering the fact the church is a predominantly African one. But then my mind would be set back to videos my dad (founder of the church) would show me of white people attending it so it’s almost like this conflict in my head.
I thought I would just express these thoughts so I don’t bottle it all up but I also want to see your opinions to see what you think.
What Girls & Guys Said
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How are you still considering this person a friend on any level? I think just leave her alone and move on.
So what was the question?
Well I guess what’s your opinion on both sides? My side and her side. And if I have a problem with race.
Doesn't sound like you have a problem with race as you engaged with her and called her a friend. She is prob just butt hurt that you think other races are more attractive. Nothing wrong with that, we all have the people we are attracted to more. Some like light skinned some like tan, some like darker. That's why this world is amazing because there are so many different kinds of humans with different color hair and skin each is beautiful in God's image.