Guys, how would you feel about this post breakup?

[Anonymous]

My ex broke up with me about 2 weeks ago. We had an argument about spending too much time together and he broke down and left. Then the next day he said he needed space. I’ve given him space and he keeps calling and texting and snapping saying he missed me. We talked in person a few days ago and he still said he needed more time to figure out what he wanted. I respect his space and decided to move on…but he continues to call and text to see how I’m doing and it’s nothing really productive so I try to ignore him. I told him he could call me later today and I’m going to say that he needs to make a decision. Either we work on it or i cut him out of my life so that I can move on. I need a clear answer because I love my boyfriend and I want to get back together, but I will move on if he’s not serious. Do you think that giving him that option is a good idea or bad idea?

[Wise4myage]

What you said in your question is perfect. He needs to know he can't have it both ways, and stick to your plan if he refuses to listen.

[Uptowngirl88]

You're allowing him to call and text you. He's playing games he really doesn't want to be with you. He just wants you to chase him around

[Anonymous]

Ooof