Opting out of dating and focusing on career?

[Anonymous]

I made a conscious choice not to date as I don't see no benefit to dating especially in this current climate... the gender war and hate towards women by these men online has made me feel uncomfortable dating now. Prior to that , I realized that the type of partner I want may not exist. Due to my beliefs and standards that I have... has anyone officially given up all together 5, 10, 15 or 20 years ago?

[Anonymous]

You "don't see no benefit to dating"? Lol, okay.

"... the gender war and hate towards women"

Women, or at least feminists, started the gender war. Men have just started returning fire in recent years. It was the predictable and unavoidable response to the war feminism has waged on men and boys for decades. If you have a problem with it, blame it on women, not men.

Having said that, your choice is the right one under the circumstances. I always encourage women with your attitude to never date men. And, if you must date, please date women like most other feminists do.

[Asker]

Why am I obligated to date men in this cess pool - I see no benefit in dating anymore especially after realizing most people don't even measure up to my standards of a mate

[Asker]

I don't have anything to do with a gender war or feminist dating is a mess and I'm not obligated to include myself in the dating world to satisfy men risking my safety

[Opinion Owner]

First of all, you're right that you're not obligated to date men. In fact, you are obligated to NOT date men. You owe it to humanity to never put yourself in a position where you can reproduce, so please don't.

Secondly, if you actually think you're not part of the gender war, you are either incredibly dishonest, or just dumb.

[Asker]

No I'm not I'm not settling sorry

[Asker]

I had my kids and was married those days are over

[Asker]

After going through so much trauma I don't see the benefit in dating anymore

[animesenpai]

Not given up just not actively persuring anything anymore. What happens happens

[Asker]

Same I'm tired of the dating world and yes I think I've given up

[Asker]

Dating is a mess

[Anonymous]

I quit 7 years ago

I'm too busy building and dying