Why does my friends with benefits expect me to be a popular girl but yet he doesn’t have a single friend?

[Anonymous]

[DishLady]

Some guys anticipate that the girl will naturally be the more chatty, social one. Check out the comedian Sebastian Maniscalco; the way he talks about the difference in character btwn him and his wife… it’s hilariously true of couples where the guys is more reserved and the girl is more of an “It Girl” type. Here’s one funny description from his YouTube channel, but he has a million of them. Perhaps it’ll help reframe what you’re going through to get you to laugh a little and appreciate your guy’s reserved disposition and expectations of you.

https://youtu.be/JCWWsXzH4Os?feature=shared

[Anonymous]

Friends with benefits means you are only having sex and they're not allowed to have a say in the rest of your life like a boyfriend would. That's the whole appeal of it.

[spartan55]

Is your friends with benefits in high school? Because beyond that popular isn't really a thing.

[dustybiker2]

People only have power over themselves.

[Enes38]

I don't understand, can you give details?

[Asker]

Well he acts superior towards me because I’m not popular with a million friends and I think he judged my social because I don’t post night out pics so strange tho he doesn’t have a single friend

[Enes38]

I think you should never talk to that person.

[In_Trance]

He actually said thus oe you're assuming?