What do you think about average men dating attractive women? People claim an average man typically has a hard time dating, especially dating up?

[Anonymous]

That they must have some money or have an amazing personality

That they got lucky

That the women may not be that attractive or the men may be more than average

That those women may have lower standards

[Nikki1989]

What men call average and what women call average are usually two very different things. Personality will always win out over anything else.

[1073sucks]

What do you mean by average?

[Asker]

Like average looking

[1073sucks]

Men who have a hard time dating is not due to looks alone. Average means he’s not awful. He’s rather normal.

If an average man has a hard time dating or dating up, is because he needs to either change the way he is in personality that’s not attracting women or get financially stable or both things. Exercising and eating healthy can help but the other two things are more important for a woman.

Women in general tend to fall in love with how we are treated. Don’t overdo it and don’t undergo it. Of course every woman is different but in general if you’re toooooo overly nice, that’s not attractive and if you’re too harsh you’ll only attract stupid women if you’re lucky to attract anyone at all.

Secondly, women search for someone who can provide a good life for a family. It’s not being a gold digger, simply we want to know our children will not suffer days without food or or clothes.

There are gold diggers though and one can tell because they want all the money to upgrade themselves all about themselves not so much for future children or family. Etc.

If you’re a super average guy dating a super attractive woman, it means you’re either super lovable in her eyes in the way you treat her, and or you are providing her a super comfortable life where she won’t be struggling to get by etc. One or the other or both. If you exercise and eat healthy, that’s just extra bonus points.

[Kelley1]

Men date down for sex. Women date up.