To scared to approach a girl?

[Anonymous]

hello im 21 year old male I've never dated before im too shy and nerdy.

but recently i want to change a bit because all i do is studying all the time

i want a girlfriend but its too hard to talk to girls my mind is just filled with stuff that no girl would enjoy so i have nothing in common with them any advice to help me

[CindyRuns]

Some advice:

1 - Girls don't bite... worst that will happen is she'll say no

2 - Think of it this way... if you ask her, she may say yes and you'll end up with a nice girlfriend. Worst that will happen is she says no and you move on to some other girl. The odds are in your favor !!!

Finally, just be yourself !!! Don't try to be someone else. It's hard to fake it for very long !!!

[laly520]

ig u could start by finding common interests with others, including hobbies or topics u enjoy outside of studying

showing interest in others (girls too yk) passions can help build connections naturally

[Asker]

like all my topics are about computers and stuff what i see in most girls thay talk about concerts and traveling or some sports and fashion and i like none of these i tried but it's not my thing

[laly520]

its fine, ur enthusiasm for what u love is what makes u interesting n authentic
I am sure someone will see all of that in u someday but u need to put some efforts into interacting with girls, it will help u build more social skills thus make it easier when approaching a girl

[Anonymous]

Approach women and just make fun of them. Most women will assume you teasing them.

There are 4 billion of them on the planet and most of them are not worth the effort. So don't sweat any reaction they give you man. There's literally the next one in line.

[Iron_Man]

You’re gonna have to have the courage approach a girl sooner later or the next thing you know you’ll be 31 years old and still in the same boat

[Asker]

i think i will be in the same boat as i have no common topic with girls

[Iron_Man]

Sorry to hear that maybe try to get counseling to help you out

[Asker]

i did and im diagnosed with borderline personality disorder

[Iron_Man]

I wish you the best of luck on that

[Anonymous]

Men are always going to be stuck with this role that's my best guess that's why they will always be more male Wizards than female Wizards

[noohair]

Get them to talk about them and not you.

[In_Trance]

Go gay

[Asker]

i have no interests in men and its even worse with them i am a lost cause because I've been diagnosed with borderline personality disorder