If you were this guy, would you give me a chance?

[Anonymous]

So on a dating app maybe around 2 months ago, I talked to someone anywhere around 1-3 weeks. Maybe daily or every other day, he eventually suggested meeting up and the weekend he asked, I had to work. When I suggested another time when I was free, he was out of town. He eventually follows up when he’s back asking if we could meet and the times weren’t lining up as I was adjusting to a new job (didn’t tell him that) & he sent the last message asking if I wasn’t a night owl bc he was proposing meeting after work. I never followed up and I don’t know why I self sabotage/chicken out. I’m not romanticizing, I find him attractive & would consider him but I just get antsy yet feel apathy when it comes to (potentially) dating. Should I follow up and see if he’d be open to meeting up or just leave it alone? Tbh if I was him I wouldn’t give me a chance which is why I haven’t reached out recently

Yes

No

[McLlovin]

So you want the guy or not? you’re second guessing yourself and then on top of that your scared to try. Make up your mind. Its ok to reject someone if you dont want them, but if you do don’t hesitate to pull the trigger and go after them. I can tell you multiple times i had many opportunities but i dragged my feet in trying to date them. And they were quality women.

[Lynx122]

He's talking to you, so he's giving you a chance but if you want to sabotage it, it's up to you.

[jahaims]

Just hit him up and be honest about getting nervous and not knowing how to reply

[Anonymous]

Yes. You should give him a chance to ignore you now.

[dudegreat91]

Nope I would avoid you like plague