Is it a good strategy to wear a woman down who isn't immediately super receptive to your advances?

[Anonymous]

How many love stories have we heard about where the woman is not immediately in to the guy, but he wears her down eventually?

Yes

No

[MisterWack]

That is in movies & tv shows, not real life.

You need likability, warmth, soft, kind welcome to be taken in a more approachable manner. Being rigid, rough, hard, mean, angry, offensive ain’t going to get you anywhere.

Every relationship I’ve seen in real life outside Hollywood or whatever, flourishes on love & positivity & kindness & warmth. Without that initial introduction, you lessen your chances at getting with the individual.

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

No that just sort of sounds like stalking at that point. If you aren't getting a good initial reaction you probably aren't getting one later either.

[Anonymous]

No, I had a guy trying to do that to me, 2 years of text messages 2-4 times a week despite asking repeated to leave me alone. Even turned up at my place of work with his company. Awful. I am traumatised by it.

[RebelinSteel]

That sounds like next level creepy n weird stalker.

[Fanfare690]

What do you mean wears her down? Like plays with her mind?

[normalice]

Stories are fiction. People in them are subject to the whims of the writer. In real life people react naturally.

[Asker]

I am talking about real life romance stories

[Anonymous]

Never seen that happen. U either like them or don’t.