We had an argument and he said don’t be sorry?

[WinCx3d]

The guy I’m seeing and i had a really bad argument and the next morning i apologized and he said “no need to be sorry i think we both needed that”
What does that supposed to mean

[MicahRaine]

The argument sounds like a normal relationship stress to me. It's not ideal, but also I think that his response was his way of saying "I forgive you."

I recently apologized to Raine for something and she said it was "fine." I told her that if she was able then I needed her to say "I forgive you" for me to move on/know it wasn't an issue anymore. She said "I forgive you" and I felt much better.

Maybe have that convo with him?

[DrPepper12]

That's a very mature reflective response. You should be glad that he's capable of communicating his emotions. Airing of grievances is almost always healthy and that sounds like what you guys did here. He's right, why be sorry for something that led to a good outcome even if the process was a mess?

[DishLady]

If it's your first argument then perhaps you were due for a disagreement. While arguments can be unwanted and unpleasant, seeing how you each respond to a disagreement helps you grow closer together or father apart.

[spartan55]

🤣🤣🤣🤣

[DishLady]

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[luvstoned4him]

he needed to let off some steam and get those feelings out in the open

[Yannae]

It was a good thing that you both poured your heart out. He said it was needed. Now you can both see eachother better, understand each other better. What worries the other person, what the other person may want or needed. Either way, you have come together again and that's a good sign. Relationships can grow from arguments.

[sage2021]

Sometimes it's just good to bring things to the surface. It's a time of cleansing and then put it behind you. Clearing the air.

[ProbablyClueless]

It seems like he felt like there was a lot of things that needed to be said that were said during the argument.

This is really something you would be best off asking him directly.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

He was glad to be able to get things open between you two and air out a lot of build up stress between you two.

[spartan55]

You won't even say what the argument was about, so how would anyone here know?

[MisterWack]

That you were both valid in your feelings and that you shouldn’t be upset for a justified argument.

[scott04sa22]

Sometimes arguments are good and Strengthen the bond

[Twalli]

An argument can help a relationship become stronger because you aired your issues.

[shortster]

He thinks there was tension in the relationship before then.

[eagle1951]

means you both needed to get things out in the open

[genericname85]

it means that he isn't mad at you.

[noohair]

He does not feel a need to assign blame.