He said we can cuddle up and watch the last episode next time - does he want to date or is he friendly?

[Anonymous]

Hey so we went on a date (he is kinda my ex, we had situationship earlier this year but did not work out due to long distance but we were super compatible IRL, went on a trip after 3 days of knowing each other so it was quite intense, and had great sex, plus he was not ready for relationship so it was complicated).

I'm moving to his country in September for studies (accident tbh :D), so we met in August, went to a forest, nothing physical happened, he shared about how he is kind of failing at other dates and he said he wants to give up hooking up culture, is ready to ender a real relationship and Also he was not direct about wanting to date me , but had made several remarks:

- be said I am his type (physically and personally).

- he said we are compatible on many levels, and others are not very understanding of him.

- he also said he is more ready to start dating for real and enter a relationship.

- he was overall very positive about our past together, we talked about what went wrong, and how it could be better and it's possible.

As I mentioned we went to hang out in the forest with his dog, we also wanted to watch a last episode of the series we watch on long distance but he had work next day early (had to go to other city for that) so he drove me to my hotel, gave me bracelet and told me when I'll finally move here (in September), we can watch it at his place or at my apartment and cuddle up (he said ofc of I wanted to), and I said yeah, we can do that.

We were nothing intimate that day, but it was cute. Though what do you think - could this situation turn into dating or relationship?

I think I still want to give it another shot. He is actually my type as well. But i understand the reasoning why he might not be too pushy with dating because we agreed to stay good friends, but he also said he does not really think if friendship eventually would be possible :D

[chrissykerdock]

sounds like he wants a blowjob but wants a girlfriend too

[Asker]

He knows I'm not in for sex without feelings/relationship. He said he respects that (though we did have all of these sexual stuff and it was good on both sides :))

Do you think he is hinting to start developing more than sex?

[chrissykerdock]

if he says cuddle definitely they kiss then out it comes

[chrissykerdock]

yes he does seem intereted in a relationship just because he wants to be pleasured doesn't mean he's just for that i think he does want both

[Asker]

Thanks for sharing your thoughts, enjoy your day/evening <3

[chrissykerdock]

hope i helped you and you feel better about it he definitely wants that but also a girlfriend

[Asker]

Definitely. He is very very subtle about stuff, I know his personality. But he is also very blunt about what he thinks/feels. He already said I am his type and wants to see how it goes. And I also trust that he won't intend sex without planning to commit. Because we talked a lot about this and I really did not expect he would suggest cuddling and these kind of stuff when we agreed on friendship, he even doubted friendship opportunity lol when he was more motivated for that when we broke up. I just need third person to evaluate this situation, and advice on what I can do to keep my value high but also don't block his attempts to pursue me lol :)

[chrissykerdock]

well he seems interested and remember he's a man

[Anonymous]

He probably wants friends with benefits if you want a relationship tell him! Don't just cuddle friends cause one will get feelings the other does not want

[Asker]

He knows I'm not in for sex without feelings/relationship. He said he respects that (though we did have all of these sexual stuff and it was good on both sides :))

Do you think he is hinting to start developing more than sex?

[Opinion Owner]

Highly doubt he wants a relationship again!

[jahaims]

If a guy cuddles you he wants to fuck