What do you think when I say I'm 30, I'm straight, and I've never dated/had a relationship?

[paledreams]

I guess the ladies just didn't like me or smelled fear on me lol. Or weakness they sensed lol. Look I can say openly, I'm not the smartest tool in the shed.

Not surprised

Surprised, you don't look that bad man

Just one of the unlucky ones

Time got away from you, not your fault necessarily, and now your 30s lol

Sucks to be you lol - you missed a banging good time lol 😆

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Update - I also don't wanna seem or feel like I'm wasting my time "rushing to make up for lost time" if I'm now 30 still trying to score 20s chicks and still act/be 20 lols in actions and in mindset lol - am I too old or too past it? I'd say so actually honestly that at 30 or 32 even, a man shouldn't keep behaving like he's 20, playing the dating field or still thinking he's not settled down 👎🏻

[Oliverlogan263]

Ah man, don't be so hard on yourself. Everyone's path in life is different, yeah? Just cause you're 30 doesn't mean you missed out or anything's wrong with you.

Dating can be tough for sure. Takes time to learn what you want and figure out how to connect with people. I wouldn't say the ladies didn't like you - maybe you just hadn't found the right one to vibe with yet. Or you had other priorities to focus on for a while.

That said, could be good to do some reflecting on what you truly want now and how to put your best self out there. But don't rush things or feel like you're "behind." Comparison is the thief of joy, right bro?

If anything, you might have an advantage - at 30 hopefully you know yourself better. You're comfortable in your own skin. That can be real attractive to the right person.

Just do you, get out there socializing in places you genuinely enjoy, and see what happens. And maybe try some apps if meeting organically is tricky. But don't stress finding a "20s chick" necessarily. Maybe an established woman closer to your age who wants the samethings long term would be perfect.

Chin up, my man! Your time will come. But for now, focus on putting good vibes out and being true to who you are inside. The right one will see your worth - she's out there somewhere waiting for ya.

[strateguy632]

I think "that is your story.

Try smoothing down your hair.

[thegreenyogi]

I am not surprised and I'm actually quite impressed that isn't your priority.