Men I have a question?

[Anonymous]

I have been on dating sites before, and each time the vibe is good, we get into to asking questions about each other, messaging back quickly and everything is good. But as soon as I disclose that I’m a virgin and have never been in a relationship the vibe gets thrown off and they start messaging back slower or not messaging back at all. And before anyone says “why do you tell them you’re a virgin” or “why are you telling them you’ve never been in a relationship, I tell them because they ask and I’m not ashamed of either one. But I am starting to realize its becoming a problem because I haven’t been able to get into a relationship, I’m almost 22 and have never been in a relationship before, I can’t relate to people around me that are and it’s quite exhausting not to mention embarrassing.

My question is: Are men who are experienced in dating and sexually, scared to be with a women that has never been in a relationship and still is a virgin?

Yes, its too much to handle

No, I can handle it

[OlderAndWiser]

It does not scare a man who has self-confidence.

You don't need to disclose this very early in the process. If he asks about it, just respond, "That's something I'd feel more comfortable discussing with a guy on a second or third date."

[Berethor]

You having a problem with fellow virgins? I believe that most men prefer virgin over a ho.

https://allthetropes.org/wiki/Nature_Adores_a_Virgin

[MisterWack]

“ But as soon as I disclose that I’m a virgin and have never been in a relationship the vibe gets thrown off and they start messaging back slower or not messaging back at all. “

This is a thought, they might see it as “Oh, there must be a reason why she doesn’t have prior experiences, must be weird”.
Shift strategies and try to not mention the relationship thing…. Only mention it on the date if asked about it though admit you are a virgin. See if that changes anything.

[Iron_Man]

Because men that are on dating sites are looking to get laid and when they find out that you’re a serious kind of a girl that it’s a turnoff to them, but that’s a good thing that you’re doing, but I don’t recommend joining dating sites because that’s all they’re looking for is sex and the women are looking for a lot of money from guys that have well off jobs so it’s just a waste of time

[guyinterested]

Virgins are more hesitant to have sex... so it turns guys off,

[thearchjoker]

could be that they think your scamming them