Yours looks and status as a man is your confidence?

[JamieRobinson1994]

While I agree that confidence can be developed outside of dating, I believe that, for men, a lot of it is rooted in their appearance and social standing, especially during school, college, and university years. I've never come across a good-looking guy who lacks confidence; it's unlikely he was the awkward outsider in his teens who only came into his looks after turning 20. The way you look and how women respond to you significantly shape your confidence, right?

[Anonymous]

Yup. It's one of those catch 22's. Right up there with needing experience to get a job, but needing a job to get experience. Women will always word it as a "catch all" that you lacked confidence or they just didn't like your personality. My favorite is when women say that what is most attractive to them is a guy that is "funny". Because look at Chris Farley. Dude was one of the funniest guys on the planet and couldn't get a girlfriend to save his life.😆

There's no point in getting mad about any of this though. I've lived almost half a century now and one thing I've gleaned from all these years is a woman will never make logical sense when it comes to attraction. So just accept whatever nonsensical thing she says and move on. You don't have to accept it as fact. Just so long as you accept it.😆

And if it makes you feel any better. Women feel this same way when it comes to what men find attractive.

I like this video because it highlights how indecisive a woman is and why men should never Ben bothered by what a woman deems as attractive or unattractive. These women rank eachother taking the majority of the time of video and there is a lot of debate between them on who is attractive and why. While men come in and rank them and know almost immediately the ranking. And there is a very quick consensus. Because the men do not convoluted things with an overabundance of feelings or vibes. It's not personal either. You ask a guy a question and he answers it honestly without personal bias. You even hear a guy says as they're walking away that that was brutal and he feels bad. Because it wasn't personal but he knows some of those women will take it that way. But the point is ask ANY guy and they'll agree with this assessment alike, the same. Maybe a few discrepancies. Like I for example would have switched 1 and 2. But for the most part I agree completely. And almost all guys would.

https://www.youtube.com/embed/A-YcBYUfgtc

[RedInnocent69]

Yes and no. Confidence outshines looks. Leagues don’t really exist. Always lots of exceptions. Those are usually confidence and charm/personality. Think about Roger Rabbit and Jessica.

[Anonymous]

What? Makes no sense? Usually ugly guys are the dumbest most confident losers whispering at girls and creeping them out!

[LiamJHayden]

Nope. I've always been fearless in approaching.